We gig on Valentines day and have done so for as many years as I can remember.
I always had roses delivered to the gig while we were working. It cost a little extra, but it was worth it for the smile.
Then we saw a documentary about the workers in Latin America growing and processing the roses and their exposure to potent insecticides and carcinogens.
I know they need the work and are happy to get the job, but we both agreed, we can't participate in poisoning people -- so no more flowers.
I get her something else instead (which turns out to be more expensive but worth it)
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Your wife didn't happen to find this article and give it to you to get more expensive gifts, did she? (of course I'm kidding)
I think it's great that you two are so on the same page with this kind of thing. It's really important to consider things as you have mentioned!
Also, I love that you are a giving husband. That's really great to see