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#673828 09/19/21 09:36 AM
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Is anyone on the forum into pop music at all? I think I know of a few, but figured I would ask.

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As the Rolling Stones are described as Pop and so are a zillion other bands, I think it would be hard to find anyone who did not like Pop.

So much music has been made and recorded and evolved that the terms like POP, Rock, and Blues, for example, are becoming less meaningful.

Boubacar Traoré (born 1942 in Kayes, Mali) is a Malian singer, songwriter, and guitarist. When someone asks me if I like the blues, he certainly does not come to mind first. If you don't speak French, you most likely never heard of him. He is considered a blues player but very different from people we are all more familiar with.

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Never touch the stuff, unless I am well paid.

More seriously, I think most people would consider the music they like to be popular music, so I'm not sure what the definition of pop music is. And jazz players should be able to play on just about anything, and I've been asked to.


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I think relevant to the question is how you define pop, as the definition seems to change every 8-10 years. In the late 0s when Debbie Gibson was one of the queens of what was then called pop, I was quite into her because for a kid she wrote good songs. Actually went to see her in concert because I knew she would have a killer band behind her. Madonna was once considered pop.

So give the relative difference in our age, allow me to ask what you call pop. Give me maybe 4-5 bands and I'll know where you are at. I may like pop as you define pop.

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I am mostly into pop music
But that does not necessarly mean what's currently on the radio
I am still a huge fan of the 80's


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What exactly do you mean by pop music?

For me there are only two kinds of music (1) music I like and (2) music made for someone other than myself.

My tastes run across genres, from Bach to the 21st century, and I can find music I like and music I don't like in just about any genre of music.

So I listen to what I like and leave the rest for others.

If you explain exactly what you mean by pop, I can give you a more direct answer.

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Yes, but please define pop from your perspective...

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I think at least half of the stuff I have posted here qualifies as "pop" of one variety in that it is not country, rock, blues, or folk, but more "techno...", but that is not to say the other genres can't be pop as well...

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I consider Michael Buble, Harry Connick Jr and The Trans Siberian Orchestra as Pop artists.


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Harry Connick Jr. is an interesting case. He’s so versatile. I think if you can classify him at all, which may be a mistake to do anyway, that you should use the band he created as an indication of what he would call himself. His band, with his piano and singing, is jazz.


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I had a guy from The Trans Siberian Orchestra play violin on one of my tracks once. He was great, and he did it for free.

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Which one? They have had 10, 3 of whom are male. The one I met at a meet and greet was Mark Wood, a Julliard guy. I saw them perform 4 times and all 4 times happened to be during his 9 years with the troupe so he is the only one I ever saw with them. I CAN say that no matter who they use it follows that it is an outstanding player. He also owns Wood Violins. Bring your checkbook AND your credit cards... They start at about $2500 and as always, when you add "more" the price goes up. They make 4, 5, 6 and 7 string instruments, both fitted with electronics and without. He played mainly a gorgeous blue violin with a wireless transmitter built into the underside every time I saw him. During the meet and greet I said that I had seen the transmitter built into the body and asked if that was strictly an audio transmitter or if he was sending MIDI out to modules. And he smiled and said "Nobody has EVER asked me that. You must be a player yourself." And my reply, always the wise guy, was, "No. YOU play music. I play AT music."

If it was him that you had play, you may see that he looks a lot like Steve Vai. His wife is Laura Kaye, a great singer singer and a drop dead gorgeous model type who also runs the Electrify Your Symphony program with Mark, and in their spare time (LOL!) they run music camps. Quite a career package between the two of them.

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It was so long ago, but I remember his first name was David...Friedman or something similar. They had several different touring companies, one that performed in Europe, one in the States, and another one for Japan and the Far East. I never met him, it was all via the Net.


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What is POP music..? I have no idea... What is K-pop? What is Wrap? How do you pronounce genre..?


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If you define "pop" as what is currently popular on the radio, then I've rarely been into pop.

I haven't turned the radio on in my car or elsewhere for at least 10 years or more. I actually never listen to anything in the car. I find it annoying.

I've never really liked much of what the general public wants to hear. You'd have to go back to the 60's or 70's for me to care much about pop.

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Originally Posted By: bobcflatpicker
If you define "pop" as what is currently popular on the radio, then I've rarely been into pop.

I haven't turned the radio on in my car or elsewhere for at least 10 years or more. I actually never listen to anything in the car. I find it annoying.

I've never really liked much of what the general public wants to hear. You'd have to go back to the 60's or 70's for me to care much about pop.


Same here with only one exception. My car radio is set for 60's - 80's oldies, jazz, and classical music. I like the radio on while driving.

As far as music there are only two kinds; songs that I like and songs that I don't like, regardless of genre or singer/band.
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I liked Note's comment. It made a lot of sense to me.
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This is Pop Muzik....





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I couldn't go pop if you put a firecracker in my mouth smile
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Everybody wants a definition ... why not just look at the charts?

FWIW, I think technically whatever currently generates hits is pop music.
And generally irrespective of genre those hits nowadays are more, but not totally, based on loops and electronica, etc. than pop music from a decade ago.

And again, FWIW, to my old ears pop can range from engaging to awful...but I felt that way about it 50 years ago smile

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Originally Posted By: Janice & Bud
why not just look at the charts?


That would narrow it down to about 37 different genres as many charts as there are.


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I don't like what these obscene, degenerate young people are doing here in this video Steve, I don't care if it's new.

It will lead to bad, bad things.

Next thing you know people will be talking about their body parts and taking off their clothes.

I say no!!

Just give me some of that old Pat Boone and I am fine!!!

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I guess I was pretty vague about the whole "pop" thing looking back. I probably should have said what Bud mentioned, music on the pop charts. A quick reference...
Pop Chart Example

There has been a large trend to more of an 80's type of feel for the last year and half or so, which I have actually enjoyed.

I am one of those that is also in the "it's not about the genre" camp. If I like it, it's good to me.

As far as there being as many genres in the top of the pop charts as there songs in the top of the pop charts, I actually think there are not all that many. There are only a few represented, in my opinion.

I'm sorry Eddie, I have tried again and again, I just can't picture you at the Debbie Gibson concert. She definitely was and is talented. I think my brain just keeps going to the visual of you being one of the screaming fans when "Only in My Dreams" starts. There is a disconnect for me. grin

I hope I helped clarify what I meant by "Pop." I get a lot of music that hasn't traditionally been pop is blurring the lines.


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Very cool. Any specific artists that are stand outs for you?


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Originally Posted By: Bernard Rasson
I am mostly into pop music
But that does not necessarly mean what's currently on the radio
I am still a huge fan of the 80's


Any specific bands or songs? I have many from that time.


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Originally Posted By: David Snyder

I don't like what these obscene, degenerate young people are doing here in this video Steve, I don't care if it's new.

It will lead to bad, bad things.

Next thing you know people will be talking about their body parts and taking off their clothes.

I say no!!

Just give me some of that old Pat Boone and I am fine!!!


Sorry, David Pay Boone has gone all heavy metal on you...lol

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I'm sorry Eddie, I have tried again and again, I just can't picture you at the Debbie Gibson concert.


It was actually funny and kind of a totality of circumstances thing. It was August of 1988 and she was not quite yet 18 years old. And this 37 year old man was a fan because she wrote her own music AND I knew she would have a great band behind her. (She HAD to!) My band of the time abused me regularly about that! And on my birthday in June of that year they bought me 2 tickets to her concert and a t-shirt with her picture on it. She played at our locally famous outdoor venue called Blossom Music Center. I took my "concert" girlfriend of the time (more on that later) and got to our seats in time for a really AWFUL opening act. She came on and the music behind her was as good as I expected. She was REALLY juvenile but she wasn't really there to entertain dirty old men. Her audience was 14 and I had a better time checking out the moms that drove their daughters out there than anything. She was an adorable 17 year old kid, dressed in 1987 hipster clothes, including that little skipper hat she wore, and she did 35 minutes, her whole album, and was done. No encore.

The girlfriend thing was unique. I had a concert girlfriend, a movies girlfriend, a sports girlfriend, and a dinner girlfriend. They each liked doing ONLY that (i.e. movie girl hated sports, sports girl hated dressing up for dinner, etc) and they all knew about each other. It worked because none of us was actually looking for anything more than casual fun times.

I DID feel out of place at that concert, which was strange because I had never felt that way before. And it has happened only once since. I wanted to see Daughtry when he came to Cleveland. He played at an auditorium on the Cleveland State campus. I went by myself because he IS an acquired taste. I never saw so many men in leather pants in one place before or since, and I may have been the only straight male in that building. I left before his encore to beat the traffic, but man, he is an outstanding singer. Great band too. I kept looking for, but did not find, that hot ex-stripper he was married to at the time (And might still be. I don't really follow the guy.)

For the record, MY fat azz was NOT in leather pants. The ASPCA has laws against killing enough cows at one time to wrap this body in leather.

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Originally Posted By: bobcflatpicker
If you define "pop" as what is currently popular on the radio, then I've rarely been into pop.

I haven't turned the radio on in my car or elsewhere for at least 10 years or more. I actually never listen to anything in the car. I find it annoying.

I've never really liked much of what the general public wants to hear. You'd have to go back to the 60's or 70's for me to care much about pop.


I think that is the generally accepted definition of "pop" (aka popular ... because it's on the radio)

Even back in the day the deep cuts and B sides of the radio bands weren't considered pop among my circle of friends.

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Originally Posted By: Notes Norton
For me there are only two kinds of music (1) music I like and (2) music made for someone other than myself.

This is exactly how I define music. I'll happily jump from listening to Billie Eilish (pop) to Between The Buried And Me (technical death metal) to Snarky Puppy (jazz/funk) to Bent Knee (art rock) to Beethoven (you know who he is). All of this music can be considered pop if you ask the right group.

Genres these days are a lot more flexible than they used to be. Take this song for example - they're a modern metal band, but I guarantee most of you will be surprised at how not-heavy it is for the most part:


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Here is a sideline question, is pop music that is a year old still pop? How about 5? 10? 40?

Does pop music degenerate in classification in time?

When I was 40 years old, I decided to market my duo to the retirement audience. It's a big, stable market here in South Florida and while the bars and lounges have dropped live music, until COVID my gigs were very stable. It was a good decision for someone who wants to make a living doing music and nothing but music in my area of the country.

When I started this, pop to the adult crowd was Glenn Miller and Frank Sinatra. Pop music that was 35 years or so old. As time passed, Elvis Presley and Roy Orbison entered the mix. Then the Beatles, later The Cars.

Now Miller and Sinatra don't get any reaction, a little of Elvis still does, but not too much, and it seems that the Beatles will be next to fade into oblivion. We'll keep learning new 30 or so year old songs, and play whatever our audience likes to hear.

It seems we are playing pop music between 30-55 years after they hit their peak on Billboard. Is it still pop?

My audience considers it popular, and it's popular with them?

For the years I was in a top40 band, anything a year or two old was no longer on the playlist. It wasn't popular anymore.

10 years or more, it returns on the 'oldies' stations.

Like many on this forum, I find pop hard to define.

If you mean current top40 - I like some and don't care for some. It depends on whether it tickles whatever it is inside me that moves me.

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Great summary, Notes, and well worth consideration.

Pop is whatever any specific party considers 'popular'. It doesn't mean 'the latest', 'the newest', the 'most different', the 'most unique'. Ultimately, it means how 'popular' it is with the listener. Every audience will have a specific idea of what they find popular. I can dig that.

Clearly you have developed skills to read an audience, and know what music they find to be 'popular'. In summary, 'one size doesn't fit all' smile There's no right way or wrong way.


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Originally Posted By: Simon - PG Music
Originally Posted By: Notes Norton
For me there are only two kinds of music (1) music I like and (2) music made for someone other than myself.

This is exactly how I define music. I'll happily jump from listening to Billie Eilish (pop) to Between The Buried And Me (technical death metal) to Snarky Puppy (jazz/funk) to Bent Knee (art rock) to Beethoven (you know who he is). All of this music can be considered pop if you ask the right group.

Genres these days are a lot more flexible than they used to be. Take this song for example - they're a modern metal band, but I guarantee most of you will be surprised at how not-heavy it is for the most part:



SIMON! That was spectacular. I'd call it stripped down metal, maybe. It has the 'elements' even when it was quiet..the jagged rhythm, dissonance, and all that.

It's just that they were out of costume (except the drummer, but only when he was shirtless). They look like the next six or so hipsters through the doors at Starbucks. How can they be metal without the costumes?

But that singer! Lord-a-mercy. Those are probably the best vocals I've heard in a long, long, long ever.


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On topic: Pop is like [*****]. I have a hard time defining it, but I know it when I (see) hear it. I've always liked the majority of what made it to radio, as long as it doesn't wear out its welcome.


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Really? [*****] got the asterixes? It looks nastier like that than what I actually typed.

I'll try this: Pop is like typography. I can't always define it, but I know when I see a typo.

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I have this theory, untested since I don't play with the frequency of even a part time player (and certainly not as much as Notes plays), but I believe an audience will enjoy and appreciate anything performed at the highest level. Thus I have never succumbed to the popular notion that you have to play radio hits. That notion is what results in a Stairway to Freebird with a side of a Brown Eyed Girl named Mustang Sally. I will not play "that list" in a feeble and transparent effort to endear myself to an audience. I will play what I want to play, and I am going to have a band that plays it SO WELL that they will have no choice but to adore us for what they are hearing. And it will include about 20% of my own writings.

Drivers really loved the Corvette and the Firebird. Should every car maker have tiptoed down the party line and make one of what every other car maker is already doing, or is there something to be said for being unique?

To be honest, I don't even know what's on the radio in 2021. I have not listened to a radio for at least 15 years. Other than the artists that make the news for reasons outside of music, I can't even really name many of them. Simon mentioned that Billy Eyelash person/thing whatever that is. Lady GooGoo.... an of that I avoid. Now take me down the Average White Band and Earth Wind & Fire path, I'm there. Note though that this is also my basic personality. I don't concern myself with other people's opinions too much. I am right, and I feel sorry for people who are not smart enough to know I am right. I have been taken to task SO often for my attitude toward audiences, that attitude being that when you are in a place I am playing, you are on MY turf, and in this arena if you are not a player, I am better than you. When I am in your accounting office, or your welding shop, or your decorating design firm, you are better than me. But this stage, this is MY domain and you don't tell me what to play. Your role here is to sit and listen and be amazed at how good we are. (And we WILL be great or I will not be involved in it! Therein lies the reason why I can't keep a band. We rehearse until I say it's right. There is no "good enough" in music. There is "great" and "suck". Nothing between. But that "attitude" topic is for a different thread. And I have plenty of it!)

On topic, sit and drink your gin and tonic and marvel at how good my band is. That's your role here. Harsh? Yep. But I myself am harsh, and extremely hard on myself. I missed an exit point on a song 2 gigs ago because with no monitor I didn't hear the out cue. I wanted to go offstage and drink a cup of poison. But as usual, that's just me.


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pornography


Huh, so it wasn't that word. What did the forum auto-censor?

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I just got an email from a friend who was scheduled to play a show for a high school at a roller rink in October just before Halloween. They required that he send a set list of about 50-55 songs songs they might play. On the list was Saliva's "Click Click Boom". They were told they couldn't play it because click and boom MAY be interpreted as being related to guns. Also on the list was Monster Mash, which was deemed unfit because the subject matter was "too morbid". For Halloween. WHAT??? Also George Michael's "I Want Your Sex". (I MAY get that one.)

He replied to the email informing the school that he would not be censored and was canceling. According to him (and know that he is the same kind of wise azz I am) he added

"PS. We may be available for the book burning or the witch hunt. Send us the tentative dates."

MONSTER MASH??? Banned from a HALLOWEEN SHOW??? What year is this? How long have I been asleep?

The school was a nearby Christian Academy, which may explain the tight sphincter. But Monster Mash???

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As soon as I got his email Mark, I went to that VERY search. It is CRAZY what is on that list.


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As soon as I got his email Mark, I went to that VERY search. It is CRAZY what is on that list.


Sounds like the post-9/11 "do not play on the radio" list recently mentioned.

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We use to play a song called "Clean Straight Shooter" in a couple of biker bars that liked us and paid us well.

They were very fond of the rude off-color songs. Homophobia was rampant as was racism.

"Straight shooter" is a type of crack pipe and it also can be used to say I am not gay. The guys in the biker bar loved it and demanded we play it at least two times a night.

I played the song once in a black bar where I am very well known and some thought it was funny. Mrs Johnson, the owner, came to me and said " Billy don't be playing that [*****] in here. We got crack pipes laying on the ground right outside the door. You know Jonny OD last week and we got enough of that and don't need you reminding us".

So, the bottom line is, if you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
Contrary to what you may think, the world does not revolve around "your" perception of what is acceptable. It's not your choice what you can sing in certain venues.

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That reminds me of the time in 1991 when we played an event for recovering alcoholics and we started drinking beer at 1pm during setup. By the time we started at 8 we were HAMMERED!!!

That didn't go over well.

At all.

That was probably a collective bad decision as I look back on it now...


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There is more than one way to do this. What's right for one isn't necessarily right for the other.

Unlike Eddie, I actually enjoy playing Mustang Sally and the others.

To me, simple songs are like potato chips or Cheetos, junk food for the ears. Not a lot of nutritional value, but a lot of fun to play.

I enjoy nutritious 'art songs' too, and play some of those as well.

I enjoy playing WITH the audience. It's a dialog, it's give and take, and they enjoy what I do, even when I add something for myself. I'm rewarded with love from the audience and enough money to meet my needs.

I don't consider entertaining a sell-out. Other's do. To me, the ultimate sell-out is to take a day job, so I can play 'art music' one day a week for drinks and tips or very low wages. Other's disagree, but that makes us both right.

I had two 'day jobs' in my life while testing what it was to be normal, and to me a bad day at playing music is better than a good day at any other job I can think of.

And I don't agree that the average audience would like whatever you played, as long as you do it well. If I decided to play a set consisting of "Four", "Moonlight Sonata", "Marzy Dotes", "Camptown Races", "Brandenburg Concerto", "Bemsha Swing", and "Night In Tunisia" 90% of the people in the USA wouldn't like it. None of these are considered pop music to me.

During one of my day jobs, I played Sunday afternoons in a jazz band. The guitarist taught at the University of Miami and was in Ira Sullivan's group for a while. Real heavyweights in the industry came to sit in with us because they knew him well. I enjoyed that gig.

For a few years, I played in a top40 band, and ended up being the opening act for top stars of the day. Enjoyed that one too. Plus, I've gigged in a blues band, Salsa band, punk band, sonic-wallpaper band, disco band, psychedelic acid-rock band, show band, symphonic band, and an oldies band. I enjoyed them all.

I just like playing music, and I like entertaining an audience. It's the most fun I can have with my clothes on. YMMV

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Originally Posted By: eddie1261
That reminds me of the time in 1991 when we played an event for recovering alcoholics and we started drinking beer at 1pm during setup. By the time we started at 8 we were HAMMERED!!!

That didn't go over well.

At all.

That was probably a collective bad decision as I look back on it now...


Years ago, an agent booked us for a New Year's Eve party at an Alcoholics Anonymous club. I discovered it was A.A. when we got there to set up our gear. I told the guy who let us in, "You know, you took away our competitive edge!" He laughed a bit, grinned a lot, and I knew it was going to be OK.

They had coffee, doughnuts, soft drinks, finger food, and people from all classes of society were there, from the poor to the well-heeled. Inside A.A. they all got along despite their class differences because they had one major thing in common.

We had a great time at the gig, and I felt a little safer driving home that night. laugh

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Originally Posted By: Notes Norton


And I don't agree that the average audience would like whatever you played, as long as you do it well. If I decided to play a set consisting of "Four", "Moonlight Sonata", "Marzy Dotes", "Camptown Races", "Brandenburg Concerto", "Bemsha Swing", and "Night In Tunisia" 90% of the people in the USA wouldn't like it. None of these are considered pop music to me.

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I would LOVE to hear that set and anyone who could accomplish it. The Brandenburg is the killer. But that’s just me.


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Originally Posted By: Notes Norton
There is more than one way to do this. What's right for one isn't necessarily right for the other.

Unlike Eddie, I actually enjoy playing Mustang Sally and the others.

To me, simple songs are like potato chips or Cheetos, junk food for the ears. Not a lot of nutritional value, but a lot of fun to play.

I enjoy nutritious 'art songs' too, and play some of those as well.

I enjoy playing WITH the audience. It's a dialog, it's give and take, and they enjoy what I do, even when I add something for myself. I'm rewarded with love from the audience and enough money to meet my needs.

I don't consider entertaining a sell-out. Other's do. To me, the ultimate sell-out is to take a day job, so I can play 'art music' one day a week for drinks and tips or very low wages. Other's disagree, but that makes us both right.

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Unlike you I was a weekend warrior for years playing in wedding bands. Other guitarists called me a sell-out but I just laughed all the way to the bank.

Like you we interacted with the audience and played what they wanted to hear and not necessarily what we liked to play. The plus side of this is that we had more gigs then we wanted and had to turn down many gigs because we were already booked.

During the down times, all in the winter months, we played at VFWs, American Legions, etc. Again we were booked year after year.

The bottom line is that you have to decide what you want to play and not criticize people who take a different path.

YMMV


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Originally Posted By: Tangmo
SIMON! That was spectacular. I'd call it stripped down metal, maybe. It has the 'elements' even when it was quiet..the jagged rhythm, dissonance, and all that.

It's just that they were out of costume (except the drummer, but only when he was shirtless). They look like the next six or so hipsters through the doors at Starbucks. How can they be metal without the costumes?

But that singer! Lord-a-mercy. Those are probably the best vocals I've heard in a long, long, long ever.

Glad you liked it! Your reaction is spot-on - Einar's vocals are absolutely out of this world.


Originally Posted By: Tangmo
On topic: Pop is like [*****]. I have a hard time defining it, but I know it when I (see) hear it. I've always liked the majority of what made it to radio, as long as it doesn't wear out its welcome.

I agree. I think we all get tired of whatever we hear too much of - for example listening to Kiss a few times is fun, but a hundred thousand times might get a bit old.


Originally Posted By: eddie1261
I will play what I want to play, and I am going to have a band that plays it SO WELL that they will have no choice but to adore us for what they are hearing. And it will include about 20% of my own writings.

Drivers really loved the Corvette and the Firebird. Should every car maker have tiptoed down the party line and make one of what every other car maker is already doing, or is there something to be said for being unique?

Valid point. Don't get me wrong here, those are two beautiful cars, and one could argue that they are universally accepted as the pinnacle of automotive design, but having driven more than my fair share of Firebirds and their Camaro siblings I can confidently say I would never want to own one.

Same goes for music. Having listened to my fair share of country, hip hop, blues, top 40, and other genres I don't typically listen to, I can confidently say that I would likely be bored at a gig that focused on these genres. You could put me at the front row of a Beatles concert and I would probably get bored and walk out, much like how most of you would walk out of a Meshuggah concert.


Originally Posted By: Planobilly
It's not your choice what you can sing in certain venues.

Especially if you're getting paid.


Originally Posted By: Notes Norton
I don't consider entertaining a sell-out. Other's do. To me, the ultimate sell-out is to take a day job, so I can play 'art music' one day a week for drinks and tips or very low wages. Other's disagree, but that makes us both right.

Much how I don't consider working here at PG a sell-out. I could try and start my own music studio, which would likely end up a very expensive exercise in futility, but I'm happy receiving a regular paycheque while still working a job that allows me to be musical and creative. Not to mention I share an office with a very expensive grand piano that I get to play regularly...


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Originally Posted By: Matt Finley
I would LOVE to hear that set and anyone who could accomplish it. The Brandenburg is the killer. But that’s just me.

The third movement of Moonlight Sonata might come a close second!


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Originally Posted By: Simon - PG Music
Having driven more than my fair share of Firebirds and their Camaro siblings I can confidently say I would never want to own one.

Darn Simon, I had you in my will to get my Camaro. I guess I'll have to find someone else to give it to when I pass......

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Originally Posted By: Simon - PG Music
Having driven more than my fair share of Firebirds and their Camaro siblings I can confidently say I would never want to own one.

Darn Simon, I had you in my will to get my Camaro. I guess I'll have to find someone else to give it to when I pass......

Haha I meant Camaro's are the best car ever and I've always wanted one of my own hahaha


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Realistically, most of the Camaro's I've driven were 80's models that were very well worn - one had been extensively modified, but not very well (a rear-end swap that totally messed up the gear ratios). The Firebirds I've driven were all similar, save for my dad's '99 Firebird Formula, which in my opinion was just not as fun to drive as my old '94 Mustang V6, my '91 Probe, or my '99 Cougar.

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Yeah, I wasn't a big fan of the mid 80s - 90s Firebird/Camaros that were a little smaller. The big late 70s - early 80s were much better. My Dad had a couple late 70s TransAms that were awesome to drive. All the electronics and tech features in them today make them very fun plus the retro body style. I really like to play Pop Music!!! There, back on topic....




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nice car sslecta.
lol...camaros/firebirds/corvettes etc common as cheese.
get a real mans car lmao... as i mention in my song
coastal highway in the pg user showcase..
A CATERHAM (links/pics on you tube in the showcase).

all the women i know lol...say real men choose the caterham option to build your own.

lol...if you get a caterham, all you american guys.
note >> englands women like american guys accents and also flash sports cars. i should know cos when i lived
in uk , i would pretend to be american by hanging around
with some american buds...lol...thats how i got dates.
so i went to america where the american women like english blokes. opposites attract lol

ps love eddies bobble pic.
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ps i once owned a wreck of a 79 firebird with a special engine if i remember forgotten engine model.
wish i had kept it now and refurbed it.
289 ?

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You guys need to come to visit me so you can see both cars and guitars!

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You guys need to come to visit me so you can see both cars and guitars!

I'll be there soon!

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Come on down Simon. I have a 200-watt metal amp from hell I custom-built just for you to play through. But better bring a helper because the Mercury Magnetics transformers tip the scale at around forty pounds.

Oh, and just in case you don't like the Ferrari you can take the Countach for a spin...lol



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My first car ever was a 1969 Z-28 Camaro. I paid $3839.50 for it.


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Head to Rick Beato’s YouTube channel as he goes through a recent list of the most paid for downloads on iTunes. Not streaming, but what people are paying for the right to listen to particular songs at will

He was surprised and you might be as well.

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The closest thing I had to a Ferrari was a Fiat 128 Spider. Its name was "Freddy" (the only car I ever had with a male name). Body by Pininfarina, tuned exhausts, red, convertible, 2 seater, it was fast, and it hugged the road.

The speedometer went to 140 mph (225 km/h), but I never took it over 135 (217) because the tach yellow-lined there.

I got a ticket for going 95mph on I-95 once.

That car cost me a lot of money in fines.

But it was a lot of fun.

When I went from carrying two saxophones and a flute to the gig, to carrying a complete PA to the gig, I had to get something bigger. So it was "Arrivederci, Freddy."

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Originally Posted By: MarioD
I like this place:



Reminds me of a place i saw in Oregon once, advertised Pancakes, Cocktails and Dancing on a big sign out front. Didn't even have a name that I remember.


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I am with Notes on this one. The only songs I don't like to play are the songs that the listener doesn't want to hear. I have played all kinds of music over the years for anyone that would listen.


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Originally Posted By: Planobilly
Come on down Simon. I have a 200-watt metal amp from hell I custom-built just for you to play through. But better bring a helper because the Mercury Magnetics transformers tip the scale at around forty pounds.

Oh, and just in case you don't like the Ferrari you can take the Countach for a spin...lol



Billy

200-watt amp? Maybe I should bring a crane! My back has trouble with my 50-watt amps already! I'd like to hear and see it though - post some pics/videos!

I have long lusted for the original Countach, and that one is particularly gorgeous.


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My first car ever was a 1969 Z-28 Camaro. I paid $3839.50 for it.

Mine was a 1986 Subaru GL, the fastback style one. Slick looking for it's time, but considering it's 70-odd horsepower it was about as fast as an octogenarian with ankle weights.


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The closest thing I had to a Ferrari was a Fiat 128 Spider.
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When I went from carrying two saxophones and a flute to the gig, to carrying a complete PA to the gig, I had to get something bigger.

Closest for me was my 1999 Cougar. Nice compact and speedy car, but tons of trunk space since it was a liftback. I very nearly bought a Honda Del Sol before this, but turned it down for it's postage-stamp sized trunk - it would've had difficulty with one average size guitar amp...


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I am with Notes on this one. The only songs I don't like to play are the songs that the listener doesn't want to hear. I have played all kinds of music over the years for anyone that would listen.

Bringing it back to the music discussion! I personally find it more fun to have an audience that enjoys what I do. My main audience these days is my 8-month-old nephew, who seems to enjoy literally anything I play on an acoustic guitar - gotta love an enthusiastic listener!


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I personally find it more fun to have an audience that enjoys what I do.


The point of my frequent ramblings on that topic centers on that exact point. I always ask this question in reply to a comment with that sentiment.

Is it not possible to play music you personally like and enjoy playing and do it SO DAMNED WELL that the audience enjoys it as well as they'd enjoy "that list"? I have watched band after band play "that list" based only on the cliche of "The audience loves that song". Sure they do. They love that song done WELL! I used to date a girl who had a really awful band that was guitar, bass and drums and only her singing. THAT awful band, essentially a base trio with a singer, did "Come Sail Away" (without synth or harmonies), "You Can Leave Your Hat On" (without horns or harmonies), and a few Fleetwood Mac songs (because she lived vicariously through Stevie Nicks - to include dying her hair blond and always wearing all black) (without a keyboard player or harmonies). "You Can Leave Your Hat On", with JUST a guitar??? I have seen SO MANY BAD BANDS butcher "Don't Stop Believing" because nobody can sing it. If you can't, then just don't.

She once asked me to play a show with them for some private party. I agreed pretty much because she was my girlfriend at the time and, well, you know... The other guys hated having me there because it meant a little less money for them, but after hearing the way I filled the sound out with keys and BGV, like adding the horns to You Can Leave Your Hat On on my sampler, the bass and guitar players asked me to join full time. Frankly they were not good enough and I would have been embarrassed to be a full time member of that band. The irony is that had I joined the first thing I would have done was replaced the two guys who asked me to join.

Not all that coincidentally, she dumped me soon after. LOL!!!

You can wow the crowd without playing "that list". They will love anything that you play well enough to where not liking you isn't even an option.

On topic, though ever so tangentially, despite the fact that I really don't like bands that use 70% backing tracks, I think over winter I am going to work up a 12 song set of techno-ish covers from the 80s. Howard Jones, Thompson Twins, Thomas Dolby, Talking Heads, Tom Tom Club kind of stuff. Just me and a bunch of hardware. I have software, all kind of MIDI routing gear, drum machines, synthesizers, 10 guitars I don't need... All it would take is a big dose of unlazification. And I would learn to program drums better. That's the kind of thing I would prepare, play out 3 times in small bars as an opening act, and quit. (It would be pop music, just pop music from 35 years ago.)

Like back in the early 90s when I put together a band called Roxanne that learned 11 Police songs JUST to open 1 show. Or the time in the mid 80s when a club owner I knew asked if I could find him a band to do 45 minutes of original music in front of a fairly avant garde art rock kind of band and I said "SURE!! Let me get back to you in a couple of days after I make some calls." I got some people together. The 4 musicians were all fat guys like me, and the singer was a 6 foot tall string bean type. We wrote 10 songs that were pretty much weird, throwaway songs nobody wanted to claim. I put the singer in a striped t-shirt and a beret and asked if he'd grow a pencil thin mustache. The 4 of us fat guys wore brown robes with white rope belts, and I called the band Frenchie and the Friars. We played our show, made $60 bucks each (decent in 1985!) and never played that garbage again! LOL!! Sadly 2 of those guys are dead now. And I am likely 10 years at most from following them off the stage.

That's just some of the strangeness of me!

PS - I delude myself into believing that if the software is only sending data and clock to the hardware devices then I am NOT using tracks. I only consider it tracks if it's recorded music or voices.

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PS - I delude myself into believing that if the software is only sending data and clock to the hardware devices then I am NOT using tracks. I only consider it tracks if it's recorded music or voices.


TBH, if audio tracks are triggered by a sequencer, even that is only sending data and clock to the hardware devices. <grin>

It's all good when done right.
And it's all judged in the end by the audience, of which very few know how the man behind the curtain is getting it done.

I saw the Lion King broadway tour (with an orchestra) at a decent venue years ago .. I peeked into the pit and noticed sequenced hardware & computers in use; it's all part of the show.
How it happens isn't as important as how it is received.


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Per Billy Joel:

He says, "Son, can you play me a memory?
I'm not really sure how it goes
But it's sad, and it's sweet, and I knew it complete
When I wore a younger man's clothes"


I play memories, and I am lucky that I get to make a living doing that.

Mrs. Notes and I started our duo in 1985. The first year was pretty lean, as we had no reputation. So we took a 3-week-with-options contract on a cruise ship. We stayed on that ship for 8 months, and returned on different ships in the same line for 3 years.

We beat the all-time revenue records for the lounge we played in on all three ships. The management in Miami looks at the revenue to determine where the passengers are hanging out. Since they were hanging out in our lounge, we got the bonus of a passenger sized room with a porthole.

How did we do that?

First of all, we are good at what we do. But that isn't all. There was a pianist in the piano bar that wowed all the musicians. She was a monster and played Thelonious Monk, Gene Harris, and dozens of others so well that the other musicians used to hang there. But the passengers didn't. She lasted 3 weeks.

So what else?

We asked for requests on cocktail napkins. We told the audience that if we can't play it, we'd have it by next week (it was a one-week cruise).

Whatever got requested the most, got learned first.

If you last on stage long enough, the people will tell you what they want to hear. If you ignore them, you probably won't last all that long on stage.

Eventually, we even beat the disco in revenue. The disco held 5 times as many passengers and was open all night.

After 3 seasons on the ships, we gave notice. They offered us a raise, but Mrs. Notes' mother was sick with a disease of the elderly and needed care. We had been working the 4 months we weren't on the ship on land, and by then had a good enough reputation to work all year off the ships.

We still collect requests, and whatever gets requested the most is what we learn, as long as we can do a good job covering it.

I know a lot of musicians who hate playing memories. There is nothing wrong with that, as there is more than one right way to go through life. But for me, playing memories is a great way to make a living. Plus, I really enjoy what I do.

When I'm on stage, I'm in that place where there is no space or time, just the music flowing through me. In other words, I'm in my bliss.

I repeat: For me, a bad day playing music is better than a good day at any other job I can think of.

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Originally Posted By: eddie1261
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PS - I delude myself into believing that if the software is only sending data and clock to the hardware devices then I am NOT using tracks. I only consider it tracks if it's recorded music or voices.


I make my own tracks. I play sax, flute, wind synth, guitar, bass, drums, and keyboard synth. I also sing.

Making tracks is time-consuming, but it keeps my chops up on those instruments I don't play on the gig.

Plus by making the tracks myself:
  • I can put them in the best key for our voices
  • I can leave out the most fun parts for Mrs. Notes and I to play live on the gig
  • I can do a custom arrangement for the song
  • I can leave room for an improvised solo for the solo hog (that would be me) laugh
  • I know the song inside-out, the chords, the substitutions, and everything else so I can play the best solo
  • I can exaggerate the groove, rush bridges, and do scores of tricks that a live band does and karoke or purchased tracks do not.
  • I can customize the mix to make it sound more like a live band than karaoke.

How do I customize the mix?

When you go out to hear a live band, what do you hear most, even from the parking lot? Bass and snare drum. That's the starting point. High horn stabs a tad sharp. Background vocal parts on synth. and so many, many more.

The object is not to sound like the record, but to sound like a band covering the record. There needs to be more energy than the recording. Even the original artists in concert don't sound like the record, why should we?

There is an art to playing for the audience. There is an art to making good backing tracks. I've learned a lot in all my years doing it, and I continue to learn. That keeps the job interesting.

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Good, sound advice, Notes. I worked with the exact same approach. Find out and play what your audience wants to be entertained with. They'll keep coming back for more. Fundamentally, it's simple. If you want to do it right, you have to be prepared to listen as well as give. Great story of your experiences.


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Originally Posted By: VideoTrack
Good, sound advice, Notes. I worked with the exact same approach. Find out and play what your audience wants to be entertained with. They'll keep coming back for more. Fundamentally, it's simple. If you want to do it right, you have to be prepared to listen as well as give. Great story of your experiences.


Same here!

If you read the crowd correctly and play what they want you will get many gigs. Been there - done that.

Also be selective on taking gigs. For example we turned down a few gigs as all they wanted was country songs. We have a large repertoire, had fake books, and could jam but we were not the kind of country band they wanted. We were up front with them and they appreciated that.


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spot on. give the people what they want.
read up sometime how the world hit "takin care of business" came about. its a fascinating story the way randy B tells it. i dont have space here to recount
the story. but its fascinating how this big hit came about.

years ago i used to hang around with musos way way more technical than i or my fellow rock buds.
they were heavy into advanced jazz and chamber music/chord theory/structures. nice blokes too.
but they were always complaining to us "you stoopid rockers with your stoopid 3 chord songs...
how come you get gigs with those easy chords C5 or D5
or whatever." many comments in that vein.

but we said "we just give the people what they want.
often they have boring jobs and just want to party at the weekend".
personally i love music in all its genres, includeing jazz as long as its melodic jazz.

right now i'm looking forward to see what surprises pg has for us in 2022 versions of biab and rb.

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Originally Posted By: justanoldmuso


years ago i used to hang around with musos way way more technical than i or my fellow rock buds.
they were heavy into advanced jazz and chamber music/chord theory/structures. nice blokes too.
but they were always complaining to us "you stoopid rockers with your stoopid 3 chord songs...
how come you get gigs with those easy chords C5 or D5
or whatever." many comments in that vein.

but we said "we just give the people what they want.
often they have boring jobs and just want to party at the weekend".




Back in the 70's a band could learn 50 "pop songs" that everybody knew from the radio, and play anywhere, and you could feel relatively certain you were giving the audience what it wants. Not so true anymore. There is a worldwide glut of music, both pro and hobbyist. Spotify and Pandora have exposed people to so much music that there is no common denominator that appeals to "most audiences". A band would have to know thousands of songs in multiple genres to even stand a chance of playing enough gigs to make money.

In my opinion, that's one reason why DJs took over the wedding gigs. Not many bands know enough songs to entertain 4 generations... but a DJ can show up prepared with exactly whatever song list the bride requests.

And on top of the huge diversity of musical taste, there is also music snobbery. Who wants to invest years of practice and untold thousands on gear, only to receive disdain from every audience because your music isn't THEIR music?

AT least online streaming lets a musician use his/her gear without having to move it, and the audience is free to click away if they don't like it... so the people who stay tend to be appreciative.

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In my opinion, that's one reason why DJs took over the wedding gigs. Not many bands know enough songs to entertain 4 generations... but a DJ can show up prepared with exactly whatever song list the bride requests.

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Around here the biggest reason DJs took over was money. They charged a lot less than bands charged.

Yes music changed over the years and became more diverse so it was hard to be that versatile but cost was the biggest factor. It was much cheaper to pay 1-2 DJs then a 4-7 person band. YMMV


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You know, in the legal arena, a common objection made by the liars, er, lawyers, is "Calls for conclusion". Which is liar-ese for "I know what someone else is thinking".

Nobody knows what the audience wants. You CAN know what every other band in your city plays and follow suit. So to that point, let me ask you this by way of example.

I used to have a friend, let's call him Dave (since that's his name) who would book these bar level gigs playing "that list" and then start assailing everybody he knew on social media to drive 50 minutes to that bar level gig to hear him play "that list". I finally once asked him "Dave (since that's his name), why would I drive WAY across town to see you play Learn To Fly, Everlong, Wonder Wall, American Band and the same 45 songs the band that is playing in the bar at my corner is going to play? I mean MAYBE to hit on that cute wife of yours, but we all know THAT is a dead end!" And we had a laugh and let it go, but that is at the root of the topic.

On the rare occasions I go out, I go to songwriter night. Mustang Sally is Mustang Sally no matter who plays it, and which, by the way was originally called Mustang Mama. Unless Wilson Pickett comes back from the grave to give it one last go for me, I am not interested.

Music is an art form, folks, not a sporting event. There are no runs, points or goals here that define a clear cut winner. You want to play covers and never even TRY to write a song, to express your thoughts and feelings to your audience, you forge ahead, do what you love, and love what you do. I am currently in a GREAT Southside Johnny tribute band, and I pretty much don't like it at all. We do what we do at a very high level, but the applause we get when we finish Without Love (Did you know that was an Aretha Franklin song originally?), I Played The Fool or The Fever isn't as rewarding to me as 6 people offering up polite golf clap applause after hearing a song I wrote if only because they appreciate that I am trying.

I mean, do you want to debate who the winner was in an art contest between Van Gogh and Rembrandt? Monet didn't invent the canals of Venice. He only painted what he saw. Thus, Le Grand Canal is actually a cover painting, right? I prefer Bob Ross and his happy little clouds because he created his own scenes.

Much like all these services that are the rage with the millennials that send you food with instructions to cook them. That is cover band cooking. You are just the hands cooking someone else's recipe (playing someone else's song). When I cook, I come up with my own meal ideas (I write my own recipes). And if I had 35 more recipes I'd put out a "Single Guy Cooking" cookbook. The rules are that you NEVER make a meal that will take longer to clean up after than it takes to eat, and you never use more spices than the number that Paul Simon names in Scarborough Fair.

I find it sadly ironic and funny that people who claim they do it for art then brag about how much money they make. What a contradiction. Money is NOT the way you keep score in art. It IS, however, why I play anymore, and the only reason I am in this band I am in. This isn't my art. It's Southside Johnny's art, and his whole catalogue is covers anyway. Solomon Burke is a favorite of his, and even the stuff not covered from other people was written by Steve Van Zandt. So I don't delude myself into thinking this band is more than what it is, a really good copy band that targets the outdoor festival season. The music is not challenging, not meaningful and not rewarding, but my days of dreaming that I will be the next Diane Warren are long over. So I just take the money and go home.


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<...snip...>Also be selective on taking gigs. For example we turned down a few gigs as all they wanted was country songs. <...>


DEFINITELY!!!

I remember, decades ago, I was in a quartet. We were in a disco band, working with a booking agent.

In Florida, New Year's Eve used to be the day when the demand for live music far exceeded the supply.

Although a booking agent gets paid commission from the band, his/her loyalty is to the venue, not the band.

So to save one of her clubs from going dark on NYE she booked us from Ft. Lauderdale, FL to Ft. Walton Beach, which at the time was known as "The Redneck Riviera".

Disco was a big no-no and country was in. We didn't know enough country to make them happy, and that was probably one of the few gigs in my lifetime that I actually disliked. The audience didn't like us, and they had every reason not to like us. We were mis-booked.

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<...snip...>Nobody knows what the audience wants. You CAN know what every other band in your city plays and follow suit. So to that point, let me ask you this by way of example.<...>

I don't know what the audience wants, but when I get to the gig, I look at them, how they are dressed, how they style their hair, what kind of shoes do they have on, and a few other cues.

A couple of easier examples: Cowboy hats = Country music. Women's shoes with T straps = ballroom dance music. And so on.

This gives me a good idea of what song to open with. Usually with something that has broad appeal and also fits the genre of music the audience looks like it wants.

With years of experience, I'm pretty good at this.

Then, when we play our first song, I see how the audience is reacting and that helps me call the next song.

We don't do set lists, I react to the audience to try to give them the right song at the right time, song after song after song. It's my job as the professional to know what they want, even if they don't.

I choose from our 'list' of over 600 songs spanning multiple genres.

To tell you the truth, I have no idea what my competition plays. I've never looked at their 'list'.

I know what my audiences like, and I plan to play what they want. Choosing the songs is an art form, and playing any music can also be artful.

And remember, Mozart, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, and Prokofiev also composed and played what their sponsors demanded. The "list" of their day.

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notes....re t straps.
very clever the way you gauge an audience.
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A band I once joined was trying to be one of those "so we can play anywhere" bands. I explained while the concept is good, how they were doing that was not. Your genre "swing" can't be so wide that you go from Patsy Cline to Metallica. With that attitude, 50% of your audience is going to hate you on EVERY song. So I sat down with their set list and started marking things off with an indelible laundry marker (so they couldn't ever be seen again!) and started building a fresh list. Here's how I explained it, and what we all agreed to.

Right down the middle you have your "middle" group. That would be songs like "Peaceful Easy Feeling". Those will sell in a rock room or a country room. There were 25 songs in that group. Then down the left side (country) we had "On The Road Again" and "I Fall To Pieces". We had 20 of those. Down the right side (more toward rock) we had stuff like "Old Time Rock And Roll" and "You May Be Right". We had 20 of those. So on our plate was 65 songs we could use. We played the entire middle list every night. Then based on, as Notes said, whether or not we saw cowboy hats and big belt buckles shaped like Peterbilt truck cabs, decided how heavy to lean left or right. We kept exactly 65 songs in our current memory bank, and for example when we learned "Every Breath You Take" something would come out of the "middle" list. That way we could keep some air of freshness without having to rehearse twice a week to do it. And this was before email so we couldn't be sending song files back and forth. It was back in the time of cassette tapes and cheap players that could play between keys so I always had to specify the right key. But like so many low profile bands there were huge internal problems so it didn't last. Like one night nobody could find the drummer. We called his house and nobody had seen him all day. Turns out he went to a bar at 2pm and got so hammered he fell asleep laying on the front seat of his truck and when someone finally saw him and woke him at 11pm it was obviously way too late. Then we had one get his 3rd DUI and as part of his plea he was not allowed to be in a bar, so HE had to go. One moved to Florida, etc... I got tired of that professionalism deficit and just let it die rather than recruit and have an emergency "on call" list.

There was a band here that lasted about a year. It was a bunch of metalheads that wanted to recruit a girl singer I know and in fact had brought her into a Fleetwood Mac tribute I put together (and never played live with). They wanted her to be the heavy metal high screamer in front of this band. Part of her leverage was that they would have to do a set of Mac and Nicks music before they did their set of hard and thrash metal. Can you imagine the kind of crowd that would hang around to hear Landslide and Whiskey In a Jar? The players were so inflexible about the orchestration that the guitar player never set down his Ibanez with the dirty pickups or play without his pedal chain, so everything was dirt and grit behind those sweet voiced Stevie Nicks songs. They didn't last long. That girl had a great voice, plays keyboards and guitar, and does a solo act, and I knew her well from those tribute band rehearsals, and she was FAR too good for them. I actually want to get her into the thing I am in now. That will be part of the off season discussions.


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Notes, I ran my wedding band exactly like your run your duo!

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You have a very good point, Eddie.

When playing to a mixed audience, the band needs to be very careful int their selections.

If you get it right, you can play 'everybody's music', but if you get it wrong, you will end up playing 'nobody's music'.

It's good to have a number of genre crossover tunes in your book.

I enjoy playing a variety of music genres.

When working on the cruise ship, the secretary of the CEO of Carnival Cruise Lines, a Cuban-born American, had her wedding reception on the ship. She and her extended family cruised all week.

We played a lot of Salsa and Merengue for them, and they asked us if we were Latinos. We told them "No" and they dubbed us "Official Latinos" because our music was so authentic. I told them my grandparents were Italian and they decided that was the connection (in jest of course).

On the run we did to Jamaica and the Western Caribbean, there was a Reggae Band playing poolside. They told us we were the first white band they ever heard that played Reggae right.

A lot of little nuances make a lot of difference.

For example, while in port on the cruise ship, I made friends with musicians in Puerto Rico. One of them told me the hand drummer always plays behind the beat, and the cowbell is always right on. He said that if he heard the hand drum and cowbell play at the same time, he quits listening.

In Reggae, the backbeat is always a few milliseconds late, making you wait for it. I could hear this one, the Reggae band didn't have to tell me.

It's not only the notes you play, it's when you play them and how you play them that makes the music art.

I haven't gotten every genre perfect yet, although I'm quite good at a lot of them. I am always learning and getting better. It's one of the things I like about music, there is always something new to learn, some new skill or nuance to make me happy when I hear it sounding right.

I guess I'm just a music addict.

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My Motown band did a 6 night thing on a cruise. NEVER AGAIN!!!

First of all, because we were technically employees that week, we had rooms by the engine. This was back before impellers. This was HUGE piston engines. Imagine finding a guy using a jackhammer to break up concrete. Then have 24 of his best friends join him with THEIR jackhammers, set up a cot in the middle of that circle, and try to sleep.

Then there was the schedule. We did a 60 minute set every hour on the hour at 8,10,12,2, and 4. Yes, we had to play a set at 4am. People have this idea that a cruise ship gig is heaven. All I did for 6 days was eat and work 5 times a day, and sleep during the day out by the pool where there was no engine noise.

And the whole time I was thinking "WHY do people like this? It's a whole week of 'Oooooohhh. Look. Water!' This is boring."

Here in Cleveland there is a famous boat called the Nautica Queen. They do Lake Erie 4 hour cruises on weekends. 3.0 wanted to take that cruise for New Year's Eve. And I said "What if it sucks? At least if we go to a party in a hall somewhere and it sucks we can leave. We can't leave from a party many miles offshore."

That cruise gig may have been the most horrible week of my life, and I was in a war zone!

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I have played some gigs where we played mostly cover tunes. We played what ever the crowd wanted to head to the extent we knew it. That was before cell phones and being able to look up any song ever written. I never thought it was a good idea to play something we did not really know to begin with.

As far a the "Last Band", things were very different. We had paid rehearsals on Wednesday for two hours. There was a setlist and written music. Two sets one and one-half hours long. The first set was all original, in the second set we played a few covers between songs from older albums.

The problem with our band and I guess every band was finding the right people.
The lead guitar player could play anything. The keyboard player was a monster, we sometimes had to tie one hand behind him to keep him from overplaying...lol
The vocalist was professionally classically trained and could sing in many styles.

The drummers and there were many, were a bunch of dumm azz problem child thorn in my side words I can not say here. Occasionally a pro drummer from one of the studios would come to play with us. Greg Bissonette would come to play when he had the time.

We had a super good bass player but she was playing in another band who that year got nominated for a Grammy and only played with us when she could She wanted to play with us but it was her cousin who got nominated. We had access to a couple of good bass players but they could not read.

The sound man Benny, was a god send, one of the nicest hard working people I ever met.

Money was never an issue. I worked my butt off 100 hours a week and we did some super good shows and a few that were really 3rd rate. Had our share of BS trouble, fined for being too loud. Fined and shut down for having too many people at the venue. Fined for not having enough stage security.

It's called "Pay to Play in LA" Pay the cops that is....

One day I had enough, I only play music for fun. I shoved all that equipment in the back of the garage and flew to Cabo San Lucus and went fishing. I helped Lewis finish one more album and that was the last 30K I dumped in the toilet playing "Live IN Los Angles". No more dealing with people with black sunglasses, black shoes, black pants, black underwear, black shirts. and their.XXXXXXX black attitude.

After all that crap I moved back to Europe.

Just so you don't think it's all like that, there are some very nice intelligent, warm, and friendly people in LA. There are thousands of wonderful musicians. That was a different time and a different world.

It is extreamlly difficult to find a group of musicians who are all on the same page at the same time. How many bands have come apart when some member of the band left for whatever reason.


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When we worked on Carnival Cruise Lines, it was a good gig.

We had the run of the ship, except the casino and passenger cabins. We played 6 nights and one afternoon set per week on a sea day.

Eventually we set our own hours for those 6 nights. On passenger talent night, when everyone was in the main room we sat and drank coffee until they came out, and when they did, there was only about an hour or two left to play. Other nights when the room was jamming, we skipped breaks and/or played a little late. We were setting revenue records, so nobody minded.

We did a short stint for Celebrity in 2005. They treated the musicians like dirt. We jumped ship at the earliest opportunity. Fortunately, it was a short contract, and we didn't pick up the options.

I heard from other musicians that Princess treated the band right, NCL wasn't bad, and RCL was as bad as Celebrity. That was decades ago, so things may have changed.

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Well, that was a smart move actually, otherwise they would have taken every dollar you earned back off you grin

One cruise I went on (as a passenger), virtually nobody collected at the casinos, and when the ship pulled in to port, not one - but two Cash Security trucks were waiting at the dock while they unloaded the takings.

By keeping you away they actually did you a favor.


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When we worked on Carnival Cruise Lines, it was a good gig.

We had the run of the ship, except the casino and passenger cabins. We played 6 nights and one afternoon set per week on a sea day.

Eventually we set our own hours for those 6 nights. On passenger talent night, when everyone was in the main room we sat and drank coffee until they came out, and when they did, there was only about an hour or two left to play. Other nights when the room was jamming, we skipped breaks and/or played a little late. We were setting revenue records, so nobody minded.

We did a short stint for Celebrity in 2005. They treated the musicians like dirt. We jumped ship at the earliest opportunity. Fortunately, it was a short contract, and we didn't pick up the options.

I heard from other musicians that Princess treated the band right, NCL wasn't bad, and RCL was as bad as Celebrity. That was decades ago, so things may have changed.

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Well Celebrity and RCL are the same company so that tracks.


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We had the run of the ship, except the casino

Well, that was a smart move actually, otherwise they would have taken every dollar you earned back off you grin

One cruise I went on (as a passenger), virtually nobody collected at the casinos, and when the ship pulled in to port, not one - but two Cash Security trucks were waiting at the dock while they unloaded the takings.

By keeping you away they actually did you a favor.


Yeah, they don't build those billion dollar hotel/casinos for the fun of it.


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That casino and cash wagon comment made me smile ear to ear. I have been to casinos, but mainly to eat and see shows. I have never sat at a table or a machine and gambled. Just not in my DNA. However, whenever I found myself in Las Vegas, usually for eating contests and once for 3.0s food writers convention, I would put ONE quarter into a machine and pull the arm JUST to say I gambled in Las Vegas and that I broke even.

I was once there for a hot dog contest and my buddy and I went to Sunset Station to beat up the breakfast buffet. As we were leaving I said "Hang on a sec. I have to gamble." So I put that one quarter in a machine, pulled the arm, and walked away. In about 15 seconds I heard noise and some guy started yelling to me "Dude! Dude! Your machine hit!!" I won $150 on one quarter and walked out with my winnings. NO "Let it ride" for me. I just don't gamble.

Well, outside of getting married 3 times... I did better with that slot machine.

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On Carnival, the two rules were to their benefit.

1) Don't go into the Casino. If a crew member was winning and a passenger was losing, they could cry "FIXED". Bad publicity. Since we roomed in the same area as the casino workers, rigging could be a possibility at the poker games.

For those who cruise and play the slot machines, on the ships I was on, the odds of winning were better at the beginning of the cruse and slowly got worse towards the end. That way they let you win money at first, and then take it all back, and then some, before you are done.

2) Don't go into a passenger's cabin. It's OK if a passenger comes to your cabin. If a crew member happens to have sex with a passenger, if that passenger comes to your cabin, it implies consent. If you go to the passenger cabin, and the passenger is remorseful, he/she could claim it was forced.

I don't gamble in casinos. Why? I know the house always wins.

Actually, I played slots once just for the experience. I was in a band, and we rented a house while playing a season contract in Fort Meyers, FL. The owner of the house had an old mechanical slot machine. He said we were welcome to play it, but it was his piggy bank, and any money we lose in there is his. I put 4 quarters in there and lost them all. But I got the experience.

I went on the cruise ship with Mrs. Notes, so seducing a passenger was not going to happen. Besides, I have the best, and don't need to sample the rest.

I did enjoy gigging on the cruise ships. There was no TV in the corner or pool table to take attention away from the band. Nobody had to work the next day or drive home, so they didn't worry about drinking a bit too much (the more they drink, the better we sound). They generally come in small family groups, don't know the other passengers, so we get their undivided attention. Around the ship and in port, we get semi-star status.

We got vacation pay too!

We worked 8.5 months on and 3.5 months off for 3 years. We chose our 3.5 months off to be the peak of the tourist season in Florida when work was easy to get. That build up our reputation.

After 3 years, my mother-in-law got sick and needed care, we had enough work around here by then, so we stayed ashore to take care of her.

That was a long time ago.

Carnival treated us right, gave us the big cabin with a porthole, ignored that we were selling cassette tapes (it was officially against the rules, but the top entertainers at the time did it as long as it was low-keyed), and allowed us to adjust our hours for the mutual benefit of us and the ship.

That is when we started playing 'baby-boomer' music.

The orchestra and the Filipino band played standards, the disco played top40, the piano bar did what piano bars do, another single act did country, and the band by the pool played soca and reggae. We analyzed it and decided the missing niche was 50s and 60s music (that was back in the late 1980s). We went to the passenger introduction show, put on a little shtick, and announced to the audience, "although we play a variety of music, tonight there will be a 50s/60s party in our lounge as soon as this show is over."

So instead of playing during the introduction show, something we couldn't compete with, we played after the show, got a great crowd because nothing else was happening but the disco, and immediately made friends who probably wouldn't have discovered our little lounge until mid-cruise.

It pays to use your brain in this biz.

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Around 1980 or so I had a duo with a 6 night a week house gig at a very nice restaurant in Calgary Canada. My partner was an Irish singer/guitarist who also was a comedian who could do some pretty good jokes. For the dinner set we would do in addition to the usual Ipanema, Satin Doll etc other instrumentals like Close Encounters or Shaft and they loved it but they were only showcase tunes, it's good when you can do something they don't expect. The bread and butter stuff was the usual Brown Eyed Girl, Sweet Caroline and Eddies favorite, Mustang Sally and some country because Calgary was also known as Houston North.

We were offered a six week cruise ship gig out of Florida. At first it sounded great until we were told the pay. It was half what we were getting at the restaurant and I was told it was because "everybody" wanted a cruise ship gig. It was basically free room, free food and some spending money that's it. It works great if your wife is your musical partner but if the pay is just for you, it's not even close. Maybe tips would have made it up, don't know because we turned it down.

I did get to "play' a cruise ship about 10 years ago when we took a three day cruise from LA to Mexico. I was in the piano lounge checking out the player who sang pretty well and was a decent player. We chatted on his break and he said go up and play something so I did. He said sounds good keep playing, I'll be back and took off for about a half hour. I got a few bucks in tips which of course I left on the piano for him. It's a nice envoronment and I would have enjoyed doing that other gig but not for what they were paying and certainly not if I wound up sleeping next to the engine room. Wow, I can just imagine...

Billy, I hear you about trying to put a band together in LA. Tons of great players few of which are willing to commit to anything or rehearse because they all have projects going with no clue if any will pan out or not. These guys are pros in the true studio meaning of the word and it's called just give me the set list, I'll be there. Typical example, Kenny and Lou the former drummer and bass player for Barry Manilow for nine years. Both monsters and they joked they were known as the band that cried themselves to sleep every night but they didn't care because that gig paid for their homes in LA. Like anybody at his level I'm told Manilow was strict, you show up on time, be straight and do your job. Don't and you're gone.

Lou is the bassist and his wife told me to call her for any gig within reasonable driving distance that paid $50 or more. She said Lou would get occasional well paid studio gigs or maybe a few weeks in Vegas for 5K a week but other than that, it's $50 minimum local LA gigs.

Then there's Kenny the drummer. We did a gig at an exclusive fitness club in West LA and for the end of some tune I can't remember he says "I got it" and proceeds to do a full blown solo and concert ending for a few minutes. This after two hours of him just being a good drummer playing the songs. He blew everybody away. When you get a chance to work with guys like that you think I want to work with them all the time but you can't. They're not interested, they already made their money, they're just doing it for fun now and are not interested in some band where you get to rehearse in somebody's living room. They're way beyond that. Just call them if you have something and if they're available you can get them. Maybe the stars align and you can get him again in two years or something.

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These stories that drive home the point of music being real, actual work make me laugh about something I did on Facebook once.

Some guy, a lower tier player, posted a gig notice for his awful band and I watched as over the next few days people were posting the thumbs up icons, the smiley faces, the hearts... All of those inane, nonsensical icons. So, of course I couldn't leave that alone.

I put up stock pictures of some guy mowing a lawn and asked "Where is THIS guy's thumbs up icons? And his hearts, and his smiley faces? After all, he is doing HIS job just like the musicians who get all the icons are doing theirs."

And I went on to rage against the nobody and wannabe types who think there is something magical or mystical about playing a gig. It's just another night of doing what we do. It's another night at work. There is nothing different between playing a gig at some bar or going to your metal fab shop and doing some pristine, complicated welding, other than the welding may pay better.

WHY do people do that? I really don't get it.

If you go into your life already convincing yourself that and 9-5 job will suck, it will. I LOVED working in IT. I just didn't like GOING to work, getting up at 6, showering, drying all this hair, putting on dress casual clothes... But the work was actually fun. I worked with so many people who came to work already hating the day because they hated their life. I finally learned that I just have to accept that there are people who choose to live in a world where it rains every day.

It still amuses me when I talk to people who think it is some badge of courage to say that they never had a real job. They are the same people who had to live with 3 other grown men until they were 50 because they couldn't support themselves. If I had to do that out of necessity I would probably have swallowed the barrel of a gun. Talk about levels of failure when you can't afford your own place at 50 years of age!

But yeah! Let's give those thumbs up icons because some awful musicians are play in a dumpy bar for $200 on Saturday night.

I literally had death threats over that thread.

It honestly makes me sad when I am having a conversation with someone and the topic of hobbies comes up. I am a better than average woodworker. I am a really good cook. I am great with computers. I wrote a well received blog for a couple of years before I got bored with it. I am 33,500 words into a book. I can fix cars. I can backyard engineer with the best of them. But let me mention music and I get "Oh wow!!! You're in a BAAAAAAAAAND??" Man, it's just one thing I know how to do! People who are so singular in focus that they are worth nothing to the world outside of playing music simply annoy me. I know about a half dozen of those borderline idiot savants.

I prefer people who can honestly say that it is them as a person who brings light to the world, not things they have learned to do out of shear repetition. During Covid time when we had no sports, out of sheer boredom I watched a cornhole tournament. I lasted maybe 20 minutes with it. And I said out loud to nobody "Wow. THIS is your contribution to society? Throwing a cloth bag full of beans through a hole in a board?"

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I had 2 'day jobs' in my life, neither one worked out because I prefer being a musician.

Yes, it is going to work, but I love my job. I would play music for free if I was independently wealthy.

The most work to me is schlepping the gear, and it keeps me fit. I don't need a gym membership.

Learning new songs is interesting, performing them for an appreciative audience is blissful.

Plus, I am of retirement age, with zero debt, but I have no plans to retire. Why should I? I can truly say I'm having the time of my life on my job.

And not all of us are the 'poor starving artist' types.

I live in a house that is paid off. It's on a half acre, about 200 feet from the eastern coast of the mainland of Florida. I take vacations every non-covid year, and I've been to much of Canada, 49 US states, from Mexico down to Costa Rica, plenty of European countries, China, Africa, Australia, and quite a few Caribbean Islands.

Now, I'm not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. If I had pursued the Cable TV engineering career that I started in one of my day jobs, I would have made a lot more money in my life. But I really didn't like the job, so I'm happier now.

Life is short, to be happy is the true success in life.

It's not a badge of honor that I'm making a living doing music and nothing but music, it's what I do for a living. I'm proud that I'm good at it, I'm happy that I enjoy my work, I like playing any kind of music, including pop music, and if I could go back in time and do it again, I'd still choose to be a career musician.

I have a friend who is an engineer, and is happy about being an engineer, as I am a musician. And I know a lot of other people who quit their job in a minute if they could afford to.

Those of us who earn a living doing something that we love to do are the lucky ones.

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If one is unhappy and always complaining about their job they should do something about it. BUT I know a number of people who hate their jobs but do nothing about changing it. A lot of people are just lazy and/or not willing to change; I saw this where I worked.

I worked in R&D for 39 years and loved it most all of my time there; the last couple of years the bean counters took over R&D and ruined it. I also loved being a weekend musician warrior. However if I didn't like what I was doing I took steps to improve my situation. I went from a machine operator to a lead technician with patents by accepting change.

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I wish we could put our collective creative musical brains together and come up with a verb that accompanies music that is NOT "play". I can't even tell you how much it bothers me that the verb with music is "play". I have never PLAYED a gig. I performed often, but I never PLAYED. People would call me and ask "Are you PLAYING tonight?" and my reply, every time, was "No. I am WORKING tonight. The band is PERFORMING tonight. Is that what you mean?"

At a recent gig, just before we started, one of the band spouses wandered by the stage and asked me "Are you excited?" I looked at her with my best "Huh?" look and in a perfect tribute to Robert Smith I said "Not as much as you apparently..." And she said "What do you mean?" My brain said "Wow. She just doesn't get it." though I didn't say that. I just smiled and said "This is just another night of music to me. No different than rehearsal other than we don't get to stat over if we mess it up." She seemed a little irked as she walked away, but that's the reality of it.

I used to idolize Jack Nicklaus when I was young. I would see him every week on TV playing in the final round of a tournament and I would pay attention to his demeanor. To look at his face and how he approached golf, you couldn't tell if he was up 10 strokes or down 10 strokes. Every facial expression was the same. Every swing was the same. He kept emotion completely out of his game. Chris Evert did it in tennis. Tom Landry did it while coaching the Cowboys. THAT is how I have tried to model my approach to music, and I think I have been pretty successful at that. A gig on a Saturday is no different to me than the rehearsal was on Tuesday.

That's why it is comical to me that all the non-music people think a gig is some major event that deserves thumbs up and heart emojis. It's just another day (night) at work. When you don't enjoy your work, as Mario says, it's time for a change. I now really don't enjoy the gear schlepping aspect of it, particularly when during hiatus like the one coming up I have to move everything up a flight of stairs, wire the home studio back up, write my mediocre songs, only to then have to do everything in reverse when spring comes and rehearsals start up again for the summer season.

All that said, I think it's time for a change for me. Like Danny Glover said in the Lethal Weapon movies, "I'm getting too old for this sh**."


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Honestly Mark, he doesn't feel "hell yeah". After 40+ years of this, it's just another night in front of more nameless faces to at least him and me. The other people, I can not say.

When you get excited, your focus tends to wane and that leads to errors. Even keel seems to work best.

For me, anyway.

I can't imagine the landscaper getting excited to mow my neighbor's lawn or the mailman getting excited about putting junk ads in my mailbox. Music is just a job like any other. A job many enjoy, but nothing more than a job. One thing I know how to do. I have been at music for 65 years now and while I enjoy the creative aspect, the playing copy music by rote, after weeks and weeks of rehearsing these songs as well as me playing through the stuff at home, is now very tedious to me. We are very good, but that's not the point. We are good BECAUSE of all the repetition, but the repetition is tedious. With a lot of people of varying skill levels in a band, some need the reps and some don't. That's why it has gotten old. I believe in putting in the time at home to learn and then rehearsal is where you assemble. It is clear in our band that some of the players don't play their instrument at all between rehearsals. That annoys me beyond description.


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I agree Mark. I get up for a gig and I would have said to her You bet Baby, It's...SHOWTIME.

I'm like the old time comic who said he's such a ham that when he opens his refigerator door and the light comes on, he'll do twenty minutes in front of a dead chicken. That's me, it's all about the roar of the gresepaint and the smell of the crowd.

As for rehearsals, they're great for getting the basics of a song together but I'm a terrible rehearsal keyboardist. I'm not into it but yes I'll learn the songs. It's like a vid I found years ago about Paul Shaffer doing a tribute to Jimmy Smith's The Cat using three monster B3 players plus himself. Great vid, great music but he also released the rehearsal vid which was interesting. They went through the tune and learned the cues but the whole point of the show was these organists including Paul ripping a solo. Joey D didn't even show up and Dr Lonnie Smith literally was just going through the motions, his rehearsal solo sucked, but the show itself? He killed it.

For me if you can't get excited about performing in front of a crowd you're in the wrong business and I've been doing it since 1964.

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Hi,
I read through all this setting here in the The ICU after surgery that has gone well.

I have always liked plying guitar

It has almost always been fun
I have been lucky to own my own business and make enough money to not be concerned with what I made playing music

How much you get paid is not always in your control other than to say yes or no

I have played in many places for free just because I liked the people and the place
I always payed my guys no matter what
I always hear about playing in bars. The truth is not many bars make enough money to pay a band
We set a rate of 2500
If it was a five piece everybody got 600
If it was a six everyone got paid 500 except me.
The agent generally arranger for air travel and hotels plus back line equipment

Ther is nothing more disheartening than having your drummer tell you he is to scared to fly the night before the plane is to leave for Japan
I was able to replace him at the last moment but by the time I payed to get him dress and there it took a lot of the fun out of a life long dream to play in Japan
It did turn out to be a night I will never forget

Everyone should go operatorate how they they see fit
On the day job issue I never had one those, had to work both night an day

A long time ago someone told me if I wanted to make a lot of money I would have to work a lot harder than I could dream was possibly at the time
That turned out to be more than a little true

No gig is worth money alone
There has to something more than money
Don’t ever let anyone talk you out of your dreams

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For me if you can't get excited about performing in front of a crowd you're in the wrong business and I've been doing it since 1964.


You nailed it Bob. That's me right now. It's just another night of music. 1000 in the room or 25, it's all the same to me. As long as my check doesn't bounce.

Now, to do a night of MY music, that would have my juices moving a little faster, but telling somebody else's story means zero to me. If I was to perform my song "I Hope Somebody Cries", which was posted here a few years ago, that's a soul baring story about how my shining personality has left me with a grand total of 4-5 people I can call friend, and that song died the slow death of silence that you risk with originals, that would hurt my soul. But to go out and play copy music, I don't care. That's why I don't gig other than with this tribute band (which is just another way of saying copy band).


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Originally Posted By: jazzmammal
For me if you can't get excited about performing in front of a crowd you're in the wrong business.

Hi Bob,
If you're talking about the crowded restaurant, where the people are more interested in the menu than the set list, I've been there and done that and didn't find it at all exciting.
But laying down some Rock & Roll in front of a crowd of kids who are all dancing - now that's a real buzz....
Maybe you never got to do the restaurant?

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Originally Posted By: Mark Hayes
And I can imagine that being offered as a response to your questioner, one that doesn't treat her like a complete idiot for being naively enthusiastic.


I answered her honestly. Her feelings are not my concern or under my control. Nobody can make you feel bad but you.


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Originally Posted By: jazzmammal
For me if you can't get excited about performing in front of a crowd you're in the wrong business.

Hi Bob,
If you're talking about the crowded restaurant, where the people are more interested in the menu than the set list, I've been there and done that and didn't find it at all exciting.
...................


That is exactly why we never took a class reunion gig. They could care less about music as most haven't seen each other in years and wanted to catch up.


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after youve been thru serious surgery like i have,
i'm just glad to be around still doing my lunatic songs.

when i was in that hospital bed after surgery i must have said a million prayers to the big boss man in thanks that i recovered...and to get me back on my feet. and it worked. i'm still rocking, and after that experience i swore i would just enjoy every day, and take nothing for granted. a scary experience focuses a person on what is really important in life. for me its my wife and music.

whether pop music or any other genre, i always enjoyed the experience of the particular genre.
whether a mini opera or a cathedral or a hard rocking band, i did my best and loved it.
my motto is always think positive....and approach everything with gusto.

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Bob the point is this. You are a CPA right? You do complicated taxes and all that accounting stuff.

Tell me how ridiculous it would be if you posted on Facebook and said "Tomorrow I start working for a new client that says his taxes are a mess." And 25 people replied

"YES!!!!" with thumbs up and heart emojis.

Because you are going to WORK???

Funny nobody replies that way to "Yeah I am wrapping the new car wash in aluminum this week." or "Man, I snaked out a basement drain today that was just crazy clogged with tree roots!"

Music is just like any other job. My original comment was that music is nothing magical or mystical. It's just something people can do. People who are just so mesmerized because they CAN'T do make me shake my head. Why? Because they CAN do it! Anybody can learn how to do anything if they want it bad enough. IF accounting was something I found amazing, I would go back to college and learn accounting. I'd love to know how to weld. I could go to welding school tomorrow if I wanted it bad enough. None of us came from the womb knowing how to play instruments. It's an acquired skill. You said you've been doing it since 1964. I started with music in April of 1956. Rather that stand in front of the stage making goo goo eyes and wishing, take music lessons and learn how! THAT is what I am trying to say. Every show is exactly like the last was and what the next will be. Performing our 21 song set for different nameless faces. What is there to be excited about? It's just work.

The however here is this. My life has been an exercise in trying to maintain an even keel. Not everybody is like that. I avoid high highs because they tend to lead to low lows. Think about a football team. If you go into a game SO high on emotion thinking you are invincible and you make a lot of mistakes because of it, and you get beat 56-0, what does that do to your psyche? How about the team that goes into a game understanding that there will be a winner and a loser? If they lose 56-0, well, one team had to lose. Sure it's just a defense mechanism but the idea is to protect myself from letdown. So you go out and just do your job to the best of your ability and in a businesslike manner, trust that the other band members will do the same, the people will love you and you get money for it.

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Originally Posted By: eddie1261
Tell me how ridiculous it would be if you posted on Facebook and said "Tomorrow I start working for a new client that says his taxes are a mess." And 25 people replied "YES!!!!" with thumbs up and heart emojis. Because you are going to WORK???


OK, I think I get this now.

You resent what you regard as inappropriate admiration because you think it denies you credit for the work you do to make the music you make.

If people type thumbs up and emojis, it means they think music is magic and you, the musician, are merely a priest privileged to be its conduit to others. It also means they think they do NOT make music only because they are NOT so privileged, not because they don't do that WORK.

If someone asks, "Are you excited?" before a show, it means they're thinking, "Are you ready to receive a gift from the universe that you will share with us?" and don't understand that good musicianship requires hard work.

Seriously. Something like that?

I recently ran into a weird personal thing with a friend who got cranky if I told her I admired her professional success in real estate. Eventually I understood that she felt my admiration meant I thought she was just "gifted" and so didn't have to work hard at it, though of course I never thought anything like that. Eventually I understood she really needed me to understand how much pain she had gone through to get where she was. What she never understood was that my admiring her success never meant thinking it was effortless.

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I only ever payed a couple of restaurant gigs
One with a keyboard friend And a couple with my lead guitarist buddy

Actually I enjoy playing mostly instrumental for a change
Kick back mostly fun for us to play a elevator music as far as the clientele was concerned and jazz of our on making

I can not say I have been smart enough to never “work” but I have not been involved in much I did not find enjoyable

I have never really been driven just by money

Someone here said that if they were independently wealthy they would play for free

Some of the most fun gigs I have played have been for free

I am also sort of like Bob and get pretty excited about a really fu n gig

I agree about having a good work ethic but I don’t agree that playing music is just another job

Music requires a lot work and skill and a large amount of art

I also required a lot of business knowledge to make any money

Well I got moved out of the ICU to a private room about midnight
I guess they assume I am getting better
This is my first real trip to the hospital for anything serious sense Vietnam
Pretty isolating due to COVID
Makes you understand a bit more clearly you will no live forever
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You resent what you regard as inappropriate admiration because you think it denies you credit for the work you do to make the music you make.


Well, the theory is buried in there but you chose to bathe it in condescension.

I don't think I (or anybody else who is in a band) deserve any more acknowledgement than anybody else who excels in their profession. A gig is just a day at work and no big deal. There is a vast difference between support and misplaced admiration. Music is no big deal. Everything you know how to do in life beyond breathing you learned. Breathing is implicit. You just breathe, and in fact you breathe in the womb. You breathe liquid, but your lungs are functional in the womb. But you learned to walk by seeing others walk. You learned to talk by hearing others talk. Those are not implicit skills. They are acquired. Somewhat subliminal, but acquired. ANYBODY can learn to play a guitar or a piano. Now, are you going to play guitar like Steve Vai? Doubtful. Are you going to play piano like Rick Wakeman? Probably not. Should that deter you from trying? Absolutely not. Point being rather than stand on the sidelines and admire people who are doing nothing more than the job they trained to do for years, take up the same skill and strive to pass them by some day.

Denies me credit? The point is that I don't deserve credit for just doing my job. I am nothing more than 1/10th of a unit that bands together to create something.

I can't recall how many times over the years someone would come over to me on break and say something like "Man I wish I could play keyboards like you do." My answer 100% of the time was something like "You can. Music is an acquired skill like any other. I can hook you up with a good piano teacher and you can start lessons right away. In a year, you can take my place."

Also, never believe that you can see inside someone's head to know or assume to know what they think.


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Sorry about the condescension. I did try, and I wasn't being sarcastic. I guess I'm reacting vicariously to all the contempt that I do find baffling. As might be obvious, I tend to put myself on the audience side here.

"I don't think I (or anybody else who is in a band) deserve any more acknowledgement than anybody else who excels in their profession."

Fine, but that's kind of why I gave the real estate example. I don't think this is an "artists only" thing. Sometimes people react strangely to attempted acknowledgement, for the reasons I attempted to make sense of. I might have foolishly asked her something about being "excited" if she was doing a big fancy deal or something.

You analogize your music to the dullest kinds of things, like shoving spam in a mailbox, but there are less dull jobs people have. Over and over you say "it's just a job", but that doesn't really say much. There are jobs and there are jobs. Usually, when people say that, it means, "I couldn't care less about what I do and really hate it sometimes but I need the money." I wouldn't ask those people about excitement, but I don't think that's supposed to be your problem with your job.

You leave very little room for anything resembling praise, and I wouldn't want to be in the position of a non-musician trying to offer it. It's almost like anything a non-musician might say would get the slapback, "Well then why don't you do it YOURSELF?"

But people get to be non-musicians and still admire musicians, there's nothing intrinsically broken about that. A person might have absolutely no interest in learning to play guitar himself, at all, ever, and yet still really appreciate good guitar playing, and even say that to guitarist players. I see nothing wrong with that.

I do get the thing about the guy wishing he "could" play guitar like you. I can understand why hearing that enough might make you want to scream and say "I PLAY like this because I WORK at it."

"Also, never believe that you can see inside someone's head to know or assume to know what they think."

That's what words are for.

I have a feeling I shouldn't have jumped in here, but too late now, and deletes don't work. I do apologize if I have crossed any lines.

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[............. A gig is just a day at work and no big deal. .............................


I respectfully disagree.

If this is how one feels then they should not be gigging!

It is a big deal to the audience and to those who are paying you, i.e. the bar owners, restaurant owners, party house owners, wedding party etc. YOU are there to make them happy.

I'm not denying that playing an instrument and playing in a band is hard work. But people don't see that preparation, all they see is the finished product.

To me playing a gig and having the audience enjoy what I or the band is playing is the ultimate high. YMMV


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I love to PLAY music.

And when I'm up there, that's exactly what I'm doing.

I enjoy myself and get into that place where there is no space, no time, no Bob, just the music flowing through me and the energy from the audience coming back to me.

It's not just another day at work, it's an opportunity to do what I love to do.

The only work involved is schlepping the gear. Semi-work is learning the new songs, it's not PLAYing but it's not really working either.

At least for me.

I love PLAYing music, and plan to do it as long as I can find an appreciative audience.

Notes

PS, IMO if you aren't looking forward to the next gig, and if you aren't having fun at the gig, you should probably get a real job with health insurance, vacation pay, paid holidays and sick leave.


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Well, I can tell you one thing for sure
I would rather be playing a guitar on skid row
With a broken 6th string than be laying in this bed in the VA
Hospital in Miami
I be lucky if I don’t through one of theses sorry Xxxx
Nurses off th 11th floor…lol

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Originally Posted By: Notes Norton
IMO if you aren't looking forward to the next gig, and if you aren't having fun at the gig, you should probably get a real job with health insurance, vacation pay, paid holidays and sick leave.


I have all that as a retiree!!

You guys starting to see why I retired from music until this band? It became a job. This band was fun when it started. Now it's like having 9 wives. I couldn't coexist with ONE wife, much less 9. All the drama, the whining, excuses to miss rehearsal, one is a spoiled rich kid who has had everything handed to him/her, one is even lazier than I am...

I expect (demand) that everybody work as hard as I do. That has not happened. The ones missing rehearsal are the ones making the same mistake every meeting. It's a bunch of people who think there is a "good enough" in music. There is not.


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There are many right ways to go through life.

If gigging lost it's thrill for me and became work, I'd quit too. Fortunately, that hasn't happened (yet?).

To me, a successful life is having a maximum amount of fun and a minimum amount of misery or stress. Whatever you do, if you achieve that, I'd say you are a success.

We gigged last night and had a blast.

It was at a huge RV Resort. We play there often.

It's outdoors, the patio was full, so they set tables up in the parking lot. The crowd was enthusiastic, loving what we were doing and showing it, a friend who plays guitar in a Rolling Stones tribute band came by, and the 3 hours passed much too quickly.

I can't wait to do it again.

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You have found your "why". I never did.


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You have found your "why". I never did.


It's the reason they say it's "A,E,I,O,U and sometimes Why." Not everyone has one.


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I think I knew it from the beginning.

My earliest favorite toys were ones that made music.

My father played violin, trumpet, ukulele, and later in life organ. I fondly remember my dad getting the uke out, opening song books and we children singing along with those old, corny songs.

Before I was eligible for school band, I got into the tonette and flutaphone (recorder) ensembles and learned how to read music.

As soon as I was eligible, I joined the school band. Pompano Beach, FL was a small town then so all the new guys got a practice pad and a pair of drumsticks. I learned the required rudiments quickly and learned to control the drumsticks.

Then the tenor saxophonist's family moved away, the sax rental was available, the band director asked who would like to try it, and I guess I was more enthusiastic than the others.

I took to it well, and was first tenor in the all-state band every year, and I also took section leader away from the default first alto.

My first professional gig was when I was in junior high school. I played in the school band, but after school, I was in this little rock n roll band. We were terrible, but so was everybody else back then.

We got the gig to play at a junior high dance. So there I was on the stage with my very best friends at the time. We were having the time of our lives, playing the top40 songs of the day to the best of our ability. I looked up and that cute girl who didn't even acknowledge my existence in English class was making eyes at me. And at the end of the night, they actually paid me money!!!

That night, I said, "This is what I want to do for the rest of my life."

I'm of retirement age and have no plans to do so. I still think gigging is the most fun I can have with my clothes on.

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My father played violin, trumpet, ukulele, and later in life organ. I fondly remember my dad getting the uke out, opening song books and we children singing along with those old, corny songs


My best response to that is "Oh man, I only wish..."

My old school Slovenian father thought anything but polkas and waltzes was not music, and despite sending me to music lessons at age 5 and buying me a guitar for Christmas when I was 11, fought me tooth and nail when I wanted to make music my life's career path. He refused to accept that there are ways to make a living that did not require a time card and a lunch box. He constantly discouraged me, badgered me in fact, from trying to follow my dream. He died during his 73rd year, when I was 39, after telling me on his deathbed that I was an embarrassment to him, that he was disappointed in what I had become, and that he was ashamed to admit that I was his son.

That was the last thing he said to me. I have been carrying that around for 31 years now, and I think about that every day. It will never go away. That man that I revered, that man who shaped me and who by example instilled into me my strong work ethic, died disappointed in me.

I have to go now.


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So sorry to hear that, Eddie.

My father didn't think music was a good career either, encouraging me to 'get a trade' or 'work for the Post Office, those guys have it made'.

He was a printer by trade.

But he accepted my choice as my choice, and came to be comfortable with it when he saw me making a living at it.

He and my mom would come out to our gigs when Mrs. Notes and I decided to target the retirement audience.

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He died during his 73rd year, when I was 39, after telling me on his deathbed that I was an embarrassment to him, that he was disappointed in what I had become, and that he was ashamed to admit that I was his son.


I've been trying to think of what to say to this since you've posted it. I'm in Wisconsin. It gets cold enough here that people go fishing on the ice. I'm sure you already knew that. But, do you recognize and ice hole when you see one? I do. The truth in what he said wasn't about you. It was about himself.

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That was the last thing he said to me. I have been carrying that around for 31 years now, and I think about that every day. It will never go away. That man that I revered, that man who shaped me and who by example instilled into me my strong work ethic, died disappointed in me.


You don't truly instill someone with great work ethic. You can try, but it just doesn't work that way. Ultimately it is their own choice. Disappointed in you? Heads up, there was NO WAY you would please someone like that. Man, he FAILED YOU as a father. You may feel the need to defend him or say some great attributes about him; but nothing excuses any of this. He didn't expose any short comings you have. He made all of his glaringly obvious to anyone not in the situation.

Sorry you went through that...or are still living with it.

I hope this doesn't come across wrong. I don't mean it as a "who needs a hug?" kind of way. I mean it as a "F him!" kind of way.

Not your style of music at all, but the bridge may give you a bit of perspective... 52 million views on a lyric video that the band didn't even put out, I'm thinking you're not alone.

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My dad told the hospice people how mean and hateful I was. (He was a work of art my whole life.) The hospice rep told him to stop that we were all here to help him.

The last thing he said to to was "what happened to us?" I told him "life happened."

I found out later that he was that way with my brothers. The worse was my oldest brother - he went though his whole life couch surfing. He was on the street. I got him the help he needed after a carbon monoxide accident. Just homeless - not abusing any drugs or booze. When I got him on disability because of the brain injury from the CO, he received $500.00 a month. My brother had no idea what to do with that kind of money. I told him "you need winter boots?" He said "I can buy them?" I said "sure if you want." That broke my heart.

I do check on my brother to be sure he is doing ok with his money. He is doing fine.

Sometimes parents really don't know how to parent. This does not make things right - it just is.

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He died during his 73rd year, when I was 39, after telling me on his deathbed that I was an embarrassment to him, that he was disappointed in what I had become, and that he was ashamed to admit that I was his son.


I've been trying to think of what to say to this since you've posted it. I'm in Wisconsin. It gets cold enough here that people go fishing on the ice. I'm sure you already knew that. But, do you recognize and ice hole when you see one? I do. The truth in what he said wasn't about you. It was about himself.

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That was the last thing he said to me. I have been carrying that around for 31 years now, and I think about that every day. It will never go away. That man that I revered, that man who shaped me and who by example instilled into me my strong work ethic, died disappointed in me.


You don't truly instill someone with great work ethic. You can try, but it just doesn't work that way. Ultimately it is their own choice. Disappointed in you? Heads up, there was NO WAY you would please someone like that. Man, he FAILED YOU as a father. You may feel the need to defend him or say some great attributes about him; but nothing excuses any of this. He didn't expose any short comings you have. He made all of his glaringly obvious to anyone not in the situation.

Sorry you went through that...or are still living with it.

I hope this doesn't come across wrong. I don't mean it as a "who needs a hug?" kind of way. I mean it as a "F him!" kind of way.

I'm no doctor, but I played doctor with the girl next door... a lot, and I agree 100% with what Caaron is saying here...
Eddie, get some professional therapy and lose that poisonous baggage... Life is too short, and "this ain't no trial run".
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Hi Eddie,

I have been to sick to type. I been reading this thread. You know I care about you and I understand better than most what you are going throuth.

I am taking enough pain meds that it is a bit hard to think well.

I was seriouslly abused by my father and left home when I was 13. That set me up for PTSD. The PTSD set me up for drug addection which I recovered from.

None of this crap is easy Eddie. There is no cure for all the pain people have put you through. It does help to talk to someone who actually has been there. I am here for you man. You can PM me anytime. I will give you my telephone number. I will get in my damn car and drive to Ohio if need be. Perhaps not this week. I need all these tubes and stiches out before I can drive. Plus I would scare hell out of you if I showed looking like this....lol

PLease take care of yourself and call me anytime you need to talk.

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Originally Posted By: Planobilly
I read through all this setting here in the The ICU after surgery that has gone well.

Glad you're doing well Billy, hope you're back on your feet soon!


Originally Posted By: eddie1261
Music is just like any other job. My original comment was that music is nothing magical or mystical. It's just something people can do. People who are just so mesmerized because they CAN'T do make me shake my head. Why? Because they CAN do it! Anybody can learn how to do anything if they want it bad enough.

This has come up a few times recently in some of my musical circles (many of which involve musical education). The typical classical/western/colonial music system revolves around perfection and hierarchy, which in turn makes people think they aren't "good enough" to make music.

Here's an example of something a teacher friend shared recently.

There's the old saying "good enough for rock and roll" - I firmly believe that it's the imperfections that make music interesting and more human. And of course that's why you're all here - because RealTracks recorded from real musicians sound more interesting than any perfectly quantized computer-generated alternative.


Originally Posted By: eddie1261
My old school Slovenian father thought anything but polkas and waltzes was not music, and despite sending me to music lessons at age 5 and buying me a guitar for Christmas when I was 11, fought me tooth and nail when I wanted to make music my life's career path. He refused to accept that there are ways to make a living that did not require a time card and a lunch box. He constantly discouraged me, badgered me in fact, from trying to follow my dream. He died during his 73rd year, when I was 39, after telling me on his deathbed that I was an embarrassment to him, that he was disappointed in what I had become, and that he was ashamed to admit that I was his son.

That was the last thing he said to me. I have been carrying that around for 31 years now, and I think about that every day. It will never go away. That man that I revered, that man who shaped me and who by example instilled into me my strong work ethic, died disappointed in me.

I have to go now.

Excuse me, I seem to have something in my eye

I learned the hard way that the best family is the one you choose. We here at the forums are a family of sorts, and not even a dysfunctional one given some of the responses here.


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Eddie, get some professional therapy and lose that poisonous baggage... Life is too short, and "this ain't no trial run".

Agreed. Mental health is too easy to lose, and too difficult to recover. It is never a bad time to seek some professional help.

We all love you Eddie - hell, I love all you guys! You make this job worth getting up for!


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Thanks to everybody for the kind and supportive words. Oddly there are things I took from my upbringing that I wouldn't change. Part of it came from family values, and was enhanced by the time in the military. Like, I am NEVER late. NEVER. I'd rather be 20 minutes early than 1 minute late. Veterans in general share that punctuality. When I was still working, I NEVER took days off. I can't give you a better example that Friday, Jan 25th, 2013. A car crossed a slippery highway during a snow storm and hit me broadside. I had some broken ribs on the left side, some bruised on the right, a bruised sternum from the air bag, small cuts all over my face from the shattered driver's side window, and a concussion from my head striking the passenger side window when the car hit the guard rail and careened back out into the second lane of traffic, spun around 180 degrees. The impact was so hard it knocked both shoes off and somehow I was "squirted" out of my seat belt.

Despite all of that, and given that it was a Friday, I took exactly 2 days off work the next week. As soon as the concussion (and it was a bad one) subsided to where I could drive, I went back to work. My logic was "I can be in pain at home or at the office. The office needs me because nobody will have to pick up my slack." The bosses worked with me to make sure I could sit all day, including bringing me lunch at noon and making sure I had water all day long. That is the work ethic I learned from observing my father. He never took a day off.

I made his disdain for music as a career path a positive. When you factor in how stubborn I am, that drove me to work harder, practice more, and drive band members to get every bit out of all of us that I could. I was going to show him that being in a band was a job like working in a factory, which he did his whole working life. The disconnect first came to a head when I told him, in these words, "You did fine by us. You worked hard to make sure we had a comfortable place to live, food and clothes, as well as finding ways to fund our hobbies. But I am the next generation, and blue collar is not for me. I don't want to be what you were. I have talents you didn't have and you must have known that because you sent me to lessons. Now that I am using that talent to forge out a career you are fighting me."

Then he got sick. His work as a finish buffer of musical instruments exposed him to lacquers and various other chemical compounds, and he ended up with asthma, emphysema, and as a result of smoking WAY too much for 45 years on top of the other stuff, lung cancer. When that happened, he checked out. He gave up and became mad at the world for things that were the result of his conscious choices. I am now 70, just 3 years younger than he was when he died, and never found the urge or desire to even try smoking. I have never touched a drug, even weed, despite being in a place where it grew wild for 18 months. And I am now 28 years beyond the years I drank way too much. Dec 31, 1993 was the last time I had a drink. He blamed everybody for his eventuality, and initially I bought into it. I have come to terms with it for the most part. As I near the end of my own life's journey and have a grasp on what deflection is, I understand why he was like he was. (That was HIS "why". To blame everybody else for his troubles.)

Part of his disdain for me was that I divorced the mother of my children and that was just not something his generation did. Compounding the felony was that I was on the road so much that 2 of his 6 grandchildren, who lived out of state, never came up to visit. Apparently I was supposed to stay with that horrible woman because he wanted me to. Then factor in that I quit the post office, something he thought was a dream job (it wasn't), to pursue music, and that was the next cog in his hate machine.

So yeah, I understand that his not being supportive of my choice or career to the point where he tried to undermine me at every turn was on him and not me. It's just hard to put to rest, and the competitive nature in me has made my inability to write the next White Christmas seem like another failure, like baseball when I was a kid, like relationships in my whole life... when I know in my heart that I am striving
for something that is extremely unlikely if only from a purely statistical perspective. Even if I DID write the next White Christmas it would never get any further than my hard drive because I have no clue how to get it out of my house and on the way to my Grammy Award.

As far as therapy, I have spent my share of time with shrinks and it helped some, but ultimately I am such a competitive person that I even find myself in a competition between the angel on my right shoulder and the devil on my left.

My best friend once told me "You are so stubborn you'd bury yourself alive to prove you know how to use a shovel." And she was right.

You've all seen that come out here from time to time. I am really a good guy with a great sense of humor and a huge heart. It just doesn't always show through.

But I digress, in this thread that largely due to me has gone WAY off track. Thank you all again for your kind words.

So just to appear to be on topic, I like pop music that was pop music when I was in my musically formative years. In the Motown, AWB, EW&F, TOP years.


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