You should have C:\Program Files\PG Music Inc\Band-in-a-Box Sounds\Programs\Playable RealDrums
in the folder you will have *.sfz *.wav
In the Sforzando you will have the same folders in the menu:
*Also try another RealDrum and see if it works as it may not have the sfz for the particular drum you are using.

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