Thanks for the advice. I am going to practice some more with the in ears but from what I am hearing probably won't be able to get over the finger in ear feeling. One of my guilty pleasures is watching the "Voice" and I have noticed a lot of times the singers will yank one of the in ears out during performance and I suspect it is because of that finger in ear feeling.
I have used the TC Helicon for years and I know what it sounds like and will try it once we go to live practice and see how it goes. With the duo not being as loud I can also work with speaker placement so we will be able hear house mix pretty well. I am glad I didn't spend a fortune on my in ears and I can say if I was only worried about instruments they would be great. Although I do imagine that on stage communications would be a pain.....since my other duo member is my fiance that could lead to some real issues