Originally Posted By: JohnJohnJohn
It is a silly conversation! laugh Do what you want for whatever reason you choose to do it. (At the end of the day that is what we all do anyway.) And if you change your mind, for whatever reason and at any time, then that is just fine.

Hi 3J,
No argument, it is pretty silly...

Originally Posted By: JohnJohnJohn
"Selling out" is just someone else crying sour grapes as they try to hold you to some standard they imagine is universal and meaningful!

...but in the spirit of the OP's question:
I think the operative phrase here is "some standard they imagine is universal and meaningful!".
However, if you consider that there seems to be a consensus reached here that if someone nominates a standard and then goes against it then they qualify as having "sold out". Of course, on the flip side, as you said (I'm paraphrasing somewhat) EVERYONE, not only women, are allowed to change their mind wink

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