Regarding having others do the leg work..... take the time to find a few online libraries and start placing your original music with them. You have to own 100% of the rights or have the authority to place the song from the co-writers.

I have one song that the publisher wanted...and he wanted it exclusive. My co-writer on that tune refused to give his consent to the exclusive deal. That song missed a possible film placement as a result. That's the kick in the butt with co-writers.

You can find my music at:
www.herbhartley.com
Add nothing that adds nothing to the music.
You can make excuses or you can make progress but not both.

The magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding.