Cool Pat, I am relieved no offence was taken

fwiw, I really dislike confrontation as well. I won't walk away if I have been slighted, but I ALWAYS try to avoid it.
I probs should couch questions in a less direct manner..face to face it is not problem but in text it is so much more difficult.
And re Kevins post, sure I get that too as in what he WAS trying to do)

I just felt he was actually jumping on me...probably an incorrect assumption on my part as well

Okay all good now - group hug

Dennis