wow, thanks Rockstar and Janice and Bud. I'm still awaiting my next consultation when i'll find exactly what my hearing aids are programmed for.

good news is that they are Oticon like Bud's although being National Health Service ones they may be lower spec.

I'll be in touch once i know more about the aids Rockstar but i'm overwhelmed by the support i'm getting.

just a quick update re Bud's comments. i soloed a realdrums track and listened without hearing aids. the high hat was there and so were the cymbals, but with the aids the high hat was better balanced - more volume but not excessive and the cymbals more vibrant.

with all the help i'm getting i'm beginning to feel a lot happier and less anxious. thanks guys!