Hi HTL, Hey, I've been in the same boat as you many of times.

In my opinion there are a couple of problems, first social media is a hard media to communicate on because people only see your words and not your body language, your eyes, your smile, your openness. If you were talking to someone in person you could say something rather bluntly and people would know you were just kidding or anyway not mean it in a negative manner.

Secondly, I have the problem in that I talk rather direct, to the point and probably sometimes blunt and you'll have some people who have no problem with it but others, the more sensitive ones, maybe their own issues will take offense.

Some people accept that it's okay to disagree and have ones own opinion, others think only they are right all the time and no one should think any differently.

There's an old saying "you can please some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time".

My advice take the dissenters with a grain of salt, usually it's their own issues doing the mirroring. Best to move on quickly and ignore the ones who have a problem.

Or another old saying "Don't try to teach a pig to sing, you'll annoy the pig and get dirty yourself". People will be what they will be and there ain't no use arguing or trying to change someone else's mind.

Or another old saying I love "Before you think you need to see a shrink, make sure in fact you aren't surrounded by a$$holes".

Last edited by Belladonna; 05/04/18 10:41 AM.