As with almost everyone, I encounter this problem often with stereo Real Drum tracks.
Step one is to try the other variations within that drum track in the hope that one avoids the sizzle.
Often there're no options.
In REAPER I use a high shelf cut that reaches as far down the frequenciess as needed with a pretty tiny Q.
I'll often, when it's really annoying, add a 2nd instance of the EQ VST and do a band cut right on the most aggressive frequency and leave that "on".
If it's only a problem in sections of the song - say - just choruses, I automate the bypass so the shelf happens when needed.
Try to do the EQing AFTER and reverb etc as reverb tends to accentuate high freqs, (unless you've a reverb with pass filters & know how to use them).
Finally using a mid/side EQ will allow you to address the side the problem is on AND a multiband compressor, oh so easy to stuff up so I try to avoid them, can do the work for you.

I have an EQ preset for BIAB RealDrums I can get a screen shot of that if you need it....It's set up with sections to combat click, click, to address snare and to deal with cymbals.

Cheers
rayc
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