Thanks, Alan. I like the sound of "excitingly calm". I'm more prone to tautologies than to oxymorons as I sometimes say the same thing twice, sort of repeating myself differently but repetitively.
Isn't 'oxymoron' a cumbersome word. Rhetorical. Imagine it in a song.

I went to a particle party with Babu Music's Marty
We met an indeterminate boron
Danced the walls and not the floor on
He said he was stone cold sober drunk
He was definitely an oxymoron.


Some favourite Waoist Adages:
#1: Play on the Way.
#13: Ask not for whom the flower blooms, it blooms for you.
#58: Bring consciousness to it.
#63: On the road to effortlessness, effort must be made.
#92: Be Love Now, the rest will come on its own.