I pretty much agree with Noel and Mick. I welcome constructive criticism of my songs. But I am pretty selective on whose criticism I listen to. If you are not a professional, or connected to the music industry in a way that your opinions matter, what you say to me is really just an opinion. Opinions are important, but can completely differ from person to person. Like everyone, I hope you all really like my music. And I love it when I receive glowing comments of praise. When someone posts something constructive, or even negative, I really endeavor to be as objective as I can about it (somewhat impossible to do about your own song). I try to keep an open mind, and if I agree with the opinion stated, I will change. But I always remind myself, it is only an opinion. Some people's opinions are more valuable to me than others.

When I want a true critique, I would not turn to anyone that I don't trust to give me a good and truly constructive one. I have a friend that I go to with all my songs, and he usually rips them to shreds. In turn, I eagerly await his next song, so I can return the favor! He is a professional musician, has owned his own sound company, and I have known him over 40 years. I trust his judgement, and he mine. His opinion counts. When I have had songs placed, that takes me above and beyond "opinions". That takes a song to the true "critiquing" level, and in my opinion that is done by professionals. When you get to that level, you better be thick skinned.

Having said all this, I do think the most important thing to all of us should be to have fun and really enjoy this thing called music! Very few things in this earth bring me the joy, peace, and full range of emotions that music does. As has been stated before, we have an extraordinarily broad range of experience, from beginner to professional in this forum. We all need encouragement, at every level.

When we do offer our opinions, and they are "constructive" we should at least try to offer them with grace.

I'm sure I have overestimated your interest in hearing what I have to say on this subject, so I will stop here!

This is a great forum, and I have come to really enjoy interactive with a great group of people here! Thanks for your "friendship", and have a blessed day!

Steve

Steve Young
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"In order to compose, all you need to do is remember a tune that nobody else has thought of." - Robert Schumann