Previous Thread
Index
Next Thread
Print Thread
Go To
Page 2 of 3 1 2 3
Off-Topic
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 7,697
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 7,697
I lost my 40 year old very healthy nephew last February to a bizarre ashma attack, it took the coroner until June to issue the death certificate, the regular tox screens and tests didn't show it, lost my father last August and then in the prior three years lost a full band of close friends. A keyboard vocalist, drums, guitar and bass. All had various medical conditions. Gigged with all of them many times in different groups. My father was 87, I can understand that but everybody else, all younger than me. Kind of a weird feeling when I think about it which I try not to. I don't take pride in my good health it's just the luck of the draw, genes, healthy living (yeah, right) whatever. Two good friends who are a few years younger than I am have recently developed debilitating conditions that are only going to get worse while me, healthy as a horse.

No point in trying to make sense of it all, it is what it is and I know my turn will come. The closest family members were my father and my nephew. To lose a wife, a soul mate, that's bad and I haven't had to live through that. It has to be rough and you guys have my sincere condolences.

Bob


Biab/RB latest build, Win 11 Pro, Ryzen 5 5600 G, 512 Gig SSD, 16 Gigs Ram, Steinberg UR22 MkII, Roland Sonic Cell, Kurzweil PC3, Hammond SK1, Korg PA3XPro, Garritan JABB, Hypercanvas, Sampletank 3, more.
Off-Topic
Joined: Sep 2010
Posts: 8,240
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Sep 2010
Posts: 8,240
Man, that's rough.

Prayers and and good thoughts.


-- David Cuny

My virtual singer development blog
Vocal control, you say. Never heard of it. Is that some kind of ProTools thing?

BiaB 2025 | Windows 11 | Reaper | Way too many VSTis.
Off-Topic
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 8,109
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 8,109
Quote:

but I'll take the chance and take the heat.
Most of you know that Pat Marr's wife has terminal cancer. He posted it here. He and I have continued to email as I've been through it and we help each other. She's been admitted into Hospice and not expected to live very long. I just want to ask for prayers or good thoughts for Pat and his wife.




John, how could anybody ever be mad at you? You are a very caring and compassionate human being who looks out for the needs of people around him. The time you spent taking care of your wife, and then your dog is a testimony to the kind of person you are.

Furthermore, your decision to donate the proceeds of your music to benefit animal shelters is another indication of the goodness that you spread so willingly as you pass through this world.

I have to admit, I wasn't planning to make an announcement, but since one has been made, I will finish the story.

My beautiful wife and best friend died today (August 8th, 2012 at noon) in a hospice palliative care facility here in Winston Salem. Although there was great potential for pain due to metastases to the bone, the hospice team is very good at alleviating the symptoms that make patients and their families uncomfortable. For the past several days she has slept peaceably like a little baby. Then, this morning there came an exhale that was never followed by an inhale, and she very quietly escaped the confines of her mortal body.

Ever since her diagnosis about this time last year, she has been an example of the way faith can work in the attitude of one who experiences suffering. I met her in high school, so she had 42 years to teach me how to love and how to trust in God, walking by faith and not by sight. I can only hope her lessons sunk in. We'll see.

Thanks to everybody who responded to John's announcement with expressions of prayer or other kindness. It would probably be appropriate to respond individually to each person, but I have to leave now to fill out paperwork at the funeral home, after which I probably won't feel like posting to the forum.

If a collective THANK YOU can be OK, please accept mine.

Off-Topic
A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A
As I get older and more in touch with my own mortality, these stories touch me more deeply. We have people here who I have never met, will likely never meet, and are just faceless names on a forum, yet the connections seem to transcend human contact. I share the losses of everyone here, and in the most recent case of Ian Fraser, the loss of one of us.

This also stirs up the reflection of how I have not been able to make the marriage thing work for me despite 3 attempts, and how much I envy those of you who were fortunate enough to meet your version of the special someone to share your life with.

I can't even imagine experiencing that kind of bond, much less tha sense of loss when they depart.

Best to you Pat. I will pray for both you and your best friend.

Off-Topic
Joined: Apr 2012
Posts: 236
Apprentice
Offline
Apprentice
Joined: Apr 2012
Posts: 236
Pat's post made me cry thinking about my wife, my best friend............


Todd
Off-Topic
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 8,021
Veteran
OP Offline
Veteran
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 8,021
Quote:

Pat's post made me cry thinking about my wife, my best friend............



Me too.
Pat I'll be with you in spirit tonight.


John
ESI Gigaport HD+
Lenovo Turion II /4 Gig Ram/ Win7x64 be
15.6" Monitor
"The only Band is a Real Band"
www.wintertexaninfo.com/BANDS/JohnnyD.php
Off-Topic
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 637
B
Journeyman
Offline
Journeyman
B
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 637
Pat so sorry to hear this news. I can't imagine your pain and I will be praying for you to get through this.
I do know with your faith things will be good.
God Bless & take care
Brian


BIAB 2026 Ultrapack- Fender Studio Pro 8, Windows 11, Mac Mini M4 with Logic Pro 11, Melodyne Studio, Luna Pro

Off-Topic
Joined: May 2008
Posts: 368
J
Journeyman
Offline
Journeyman
J
Joined: May 2008
Posts: 368
Pat:

I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts will be with you.

John

Off-Topic
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 8,021
Veteran
OP Offline
Veteran
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 8,021
Quote:

I can't even imagine experiencing that kind of bond, much less tha sense of loss when they depart.



But Eddie you do.Your love of animals is just the same. Remember that. There love is pure and non demanding.Being able to love is the reward. Doesn't matter if it's human or animal. Your mission in live appears to be for the animals.


John
ESI Gigaport HD+
Lenovo Turion II /4 Gig Ram/ Win7x64 be
15.6" Monitor
"The only Band is a Real Band"
www.wintertexaninfo.com/BANDS/JohnnyD.php
Off-Topic
Joined: Jul 2012
Posts: 98
Enthusiast
Offline
Enthusiast
Joined: Jul 2012
Posts: 98
Pat,

I'm literally at a loss for appropriate words except that you have my deepest sympathy.


Living in The Music City
Off-Topic
Joined: May 2011
Posts: 148
C
Apprentice
Offline
Apprentice
C
Joined: May 2011
Posts: 148
My deepest sympathies and continued prayers for you and the family.

Off-Topic
Joined: May 2008
Posts: 5,086
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: May 2008
Posts: 5,086
Pat, I'm so sorry, I know you will miss her and your life won't ever be the same. I'm praying the God of all comfort will comfort your heart as you pass through this dark and painful time of grief, loss and sadness. My heart goes out to you.

Also I will take the liberty of speaking for Bob (rsdean) who I'm sure would offer his deepest condolences. His father died Friday and he is with his family this week.

Off-Topic
Joined: Aug 2009
Posts: 3,168
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Aug 2009
Posts: 3,168
Pat my deepest sympathy to you; it’s hard to know what to say at times like these, thinking of you here in Ireland.

musiclover


Musiclover

My music https://www.youtube.com/user/donegalprideofall

Windows 10 (64bit) M-Audio Fast Track Pro, Band in a Box 2025, Cubase 14, Cakewalk and far too many VST plugins that I probably don't need or will ever use smile
Off-Topic
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 24,776
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 24,776
Pat, you have my deepest sympathy. The passing of your life long lover and best friend must be very hard. You are in my prayers my friend.


Dad, how will I know when I've become an adult.

When your day is ruined because they rearranged the grocery store.

64 bit Win 10 Pro, the latest BiaB/RB, Roland Octa-Capture audio interface, a ton of software/hardware
Off-Topic
Joined: Apr 2012
Posts: 236
Apprentice
Offline
Apprentice
Joined: Apr 2012
Posts: 236
Has anyone heard from Pat? Just hoping that he is doing alright.


Todd
Off-Topic
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 12,980
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 12,980
I too was concerned, but glad to see that he recently added his insight and wit to a thread here in the forum.

Off-Topic
Joined: Feb 2007
Posts: 1,815
Expert
Offline
Expert
Joined: Feb 2007
Posts: 1,815
Just read this thread and I offer my sincere condolences. I hope you remember the happy times the most.


Now at bandcamp: Crows Say Vee-Eh @ bandcamp or soundcloud: Kevin @ soundcloud
Off-Topic
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 1,869
Expert
Offline
Expert
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 1,869
best wishes from UK


Win 11 64, Asus Rog Strix z390 mobo, 64 gig RAM, 8700k
Off-Topic
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 491
Journeyman
Offline
Journeyman
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 491
Pat, Just back from a visit, to discover your loss. And like, all your other friends here, I can only offer my deepest sympathy. You know you already have my prayers. Joe G.

Off-Topic
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 8,808
R
Veteran
Offline
Veteran
R
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 8,808
Pat, we all hope you are well. I hope you find peace, and joy again soon. We all experience these times differently. Here is to looking forward to a better time, and world. (Rev 21: 3,4). Your pg family wishes you well.


HP Win 11 12 gig ram, Mac mini Sonoma with 16 gig of ram, BiaB/RB 2026, Reaper 7, Harrison Mixbus 11 , Presonus Audiobox USB96
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Go To
Page 2 of 3 1 2 3

Link Copied to Clipboard
ChatPG

Ask sales and support questions about Band-in-a-Box using natural language.

ChatPG's knowledge base includes the full Band-in-a-Box User Manual and sales information from the website.

PG Music News
Holiday Weekend Hours

It's Victoria Day Long Weekend in Canada. Our Customer Service hours are:

Saturday, May 16: Closed
Sunday, May 17: Closed
Monday, May 18: 8:00am - 4:00pm

Regular hours
resume Tuesday, May 19th!

Today's the Last Day of the Band-in-a-Box 2026® for Mac Special!

Order before 11:59pm PDT today (May 15, 2026) to save up to 50% off your Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac® upgrade and receive a FREE Bonus PAK loaded with great new Add-ons to use with this new version!

Don't wait - order today!

Check out all the new features in the redesigned Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac®!

Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac - Special Offers End at 11:59pm PDT on Friday, May 15th, 2026!

Order before 11:59pm PDT on Friday, May 15th and SAVE up to 50% on most Band-in-a-Box® version 2026 for Mac Upgrade packages... and that's not all! With your version 2026 for Mac purchase, we'll include a Bonus PAK full of great new Add-ons FREE! Upgrade to the 2026 49-PAK to receive even more NEW Add-ons including 20 additional RealTracks... that's 222 NEW RealTracks available with version Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac!

Upgrade to Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac® today for as little as $49! Check out the Band-in-a-Box® packages page for all available purchase options.

Learn more about the Free Bonus PAK and 49-PAK here.

If you have any questions about which package is the best option for you, just let us know. We're here to help!

202 New RealTracks Released with Band-in-a-Box 2026!

With Band-in-a-Box® 2026, we've released 202 incredible new RealTracks (in sets 468-488) in a variety of genres—featuring your most requested styles!

Jazz, Funk & World (Sets 468-475):
Our new jazz, funk & blues RealTracks include a groovin’ collection of RealTracks and RealDrums! These include more requested “soul jazz” RealTracks featuring artists Neil Swainson (bass), Charles Treadway (organ), Brent Mason (guitar), and Wes Little (drums). There are new “smooth jazz” styles (4), which include a RealTracks first: muted trumpet, as well as slick new smooth jazz brushes options for drums. Blues lovers will be thrilled—there are more “classic acoustic blues” styles, including guitar (5), bass (4), and drums (10) with blues master Colin Linden, featuring understated and tasty background acoustic soloing, plus brushes drums and acoustic bass. There are also new electric blues RealTracks, including electric blues with PG favorite Johnny Hiland (3) and soulful electric slide guitar from Colin Linden (4). If you love funk & gospel, there are great new options this year, including gospel organ (3) from Charles Treadway, as well as new funk, tango, and rock ’n’ roll drums (3) and bass (1). And for big, bold arrangements, we have uptempo soul horns (4) featuring a three-part hip horn section with options for a full mix or stems of each individual horn — plus an accompanying rhythm section (4) of drums, bass, guitar, and electric piano!

Rock & Pop (Sets 476–482):
Our new rock & pop RealTracks bring a powerful mix of requested favorites, fresh genres, and modern chart-inspired styles! We have more of our popular “Producer Layered Acoustic Guitars (15)” featuring Band-in-a-Box favorite Brent Mason. We’ve continued our much-requested disco styles (10), and added new Celtic guitar (5) with a more basic, accessible approach than our previous Drop-D or DADGAD offerings. There are also highly requested yacht rock styles (17), inspired by the smooth, polished soft-rock sound of the late ’70s and early ’80s — laid-back grooves, silky electric pianos, warm textures, elegant harmonic movement, and pristine production aesthetics. Fans of heavier styles will love our new glam metal (13), capturing the flashy, high-energy sound of ’80s arena-ready guitar rock. We also have a set of rootsy modern-folk rock (18), with a warm, organic sound combining contemporary folk textures and driving acoustic strumming. And we’ve added lots of new modern pop styles (16) — the kinds of sounds you’re hearing on the radio today, featuring exciting new drums, synths, and cutting-edge RealTracks arrangements.

Country, & Americana (Sets 483–488):
Our new country & Americana RealTracks deliver a rich collection of acoustic, electric, and roots-inspired styles! We have new country pop (9) with legendary guitarist Brent Mason. There is also a potpourri (14) of bouzouki, guitars, banjo, and more, perfect for adding texture and character to contemporary acoustic arrangements. We’ve added funky country guitar (5) with PG favorite Brent Mason, along with classic pedal steel styles (5) featuring steel great Doug Jernigan. There are more country songwriter styles (8) that provide intimate, rootsy foundations for storytelling and modern Americana writing. Finally, we have “background soloing” acoustic guitar (12) with Brent Mason — simpler, but still very tasty acoustic lines designed to sit beautifully behind vocals or act as a subtle standalone solo part.

Check out all the 202 new RealTracks (in sets 468-488)!

And, if you are looking for more, the 2026 49-PAK (for $49) includes an impressive collection of 20 bonus RealTracks, featuring exciting and inspiring additions to add to your RealTracks library. You'll get new country-rhythm guitar styles from PG Music favorites Johnny Hiland and Brent Mason, along with modern-pop grooves that capture today’s radio-ready sound! There are also new indie-folk styles with guitar, bass, 6-string bass used as a high-chording instrument, acoustic guitar, and banjo. Plus, dedicated "cymbal fills" RealDrums provide an added layer that work very well with low-key folky styles with other percussion.

The 2026 49-PAK is loaded with other great new add-ons as well. Learn more about the 2026 49-PAK!

2026 Free Bonus PAK & 49-PAK for Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac®!

With your version 2026 for Mac Pro, MegaPAK, UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, Audiophile Edition or PlusPAK purchase, we'll include a Bonus PAK full of great new Add-ons for FREE! Or upgrade to the 2026 49-PAK for only $49 to receive even more NEW Add-ons including 20 additional RealTracks!

These PAKs are loaded with additional add-ons to supercharge your Band-in-a-Box®!

This Free Bonus PAK includes:

  • The 2026 RealCombos Booster PAK: -For Pro customers, this includes 27 new RealTracks and 23 new RealStyles. -For MegaPAK customers, this includes 25 new RealTracks and 23 new RealStyles. -For UltraPAK customers, this includes 12 new RealStyles.
  • MIDI Styles Set 92: Look Ma! More MIDI 15: Latin Jazz
  • MIDI SuperTracks Set 46: Piano & Organ
  • Instrumental Studies Set 24: Groovin' Blues Soloing
  • Artist Performance Set 19: Songs with Vocals 9
  • Playable RealTracks Set 5
  • RealDrums Stems Set 9: Cool Brushes
  • SynthMaster Sounds Set 1 (with audio demos)
  • iOS Android Band-in-a-Box® App
Looking for more great add-ons, then upgrade to the 2026 49-PAK for just $49 and you'll get:
  • 20 Bonus Unreleased RealTracks and RealDrums with 20 RealStyle.
  • FLAC Files (lossless audio files) for the 20 Bonus Unreleased RealTracks and RealDrums
  • MIDI Styles Set 93: Look Ma! More MIDI 16: SynthMaster
  • MIDI SuperTracks Set 47: More SynthMaster
  • Instrumental Studies 25 - Soul Jazz Guitar Soloing
  • Artist Performance Set 20: Songs with Vocals 10
  • RealDrums Stems Set 10: Groovin' Sticks
  • SynthMaster Sounds & Styles Set 2 (sounds & styles with audio demos)

Learn more about the Bonus PAK and 49-PAK for Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac®!

XPro & Xtra Styles PAK Sets On Sale Now - Until May 15, 2026!

All of our XPro Styles PAKs and Xtra Styles PAKs are on sale until May 15th, 2026!

It's the perfect time to expand your Band-in-a-Box® style library with XPro and Xtra Styles PAKs. These additional styles for Band-in-a-Box® offer a wide range of genres designed to fit seamlessly into your projects. Each style is professionally arranged and mixed, helping enhance your songs while saving you time.

What are XPro Styles and Xtra Styles PAKs?

XPro Styles PAKs are styles that work with any version (Pro, MegaPAK, UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, or Audiophile Edition) of Band-in-a-Box® 2025 (or higher). XPro Styles PAKS 1-10 includes 1,000 styles!

Xtra Styles PAKs are styles that work with the UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, or Audiophile Edition of Band-in-a-Box® 2025 (or higher). Xtra Styles PAKs 1-21 includes 3,700 styles (and 35 MIDI styles)!

The XPro & Xtra Styles PAKs are not included in any Band-in-a-Box® package.

The XPro Styles PAKs 1-10 are available for only $29 ea (reg. $49 ea), or get them all in the XPro Styles PAK Bundle for only $149 (reg. $299)! Listen to demos and order now! For Mac or for Windows.

The Xtra Styles PAKs 1-21 are available for only $29 ea (reg. $49 ea), or get them all in the Xtra Styles PAK Bundle for only $199 (reg. $349)! Listen to demos and order now! For Mac or for Windows.

Note: XPro Styles PAKs require Band-in-a-Box® 2025 or higher and are compatible with ANY package, including the Pro, MegaPAK, UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, and Audiophile Edition.

The Xtra Styles require the UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, or Audiophile Edition of Band-in-a-Box®. (Xtra Styles PAK 19 requires the 2025 or higher UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, or Audiophile Edition. They will not work with the Pro or MegaPAK version as they require the RealTracks included in the UltraPAK, UltraPAK+, or Audiophile Edition.

Supercharge your Band-in-a-Box today with XPro Styles PAKs and Xtra Styles PAK Sets!

Band-in-a-Box 2026 for Mac Videos

With the release of Band-in-a-Box® 2026 for Mac, we’re rolling out a collection of brand-new videos on our YouTube channel. We’ll keep this forum post updated so you can easily find all the latest videos in one convenient spot.

Whether you're exploring new features, checking out the latest RealTracks or Style PAKs, this is your go-to guide for Band-in-a-Box® 2026.

Check out this forum post for "One Stop Shopping" of our Band-in-a-Box® 2026 Mac Videos!

Forum Statistics
Forums57
Topics86,309
Posts803,095
Members40,090
Most Online64,515
Apr 8th, 2026
Newest Members
sergiop, John Stubering, JohnDoe4u, MarkGMusic, Thekesslerboy
40,090 Registered Users
Top Posters(30 Days)
MarioD 129
rsdean 96
vicarn 83
DC Ron 78
WaoBand 63
Noel96 58
Today's Birthdays
paoloca59, peteh, Wolftone, ZedzDed
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5