I should be up at 1:05am Sunday morning. I plan on lighting 2 candles at 1am so they are burning 5 minutes later as I offer up prayers in her memory. I'll add a few for my dad who would have been 95 yesterday.

Focus on the joy you shared for those 32 years John. What you had for all those years together a lot of people would trade you for in a heartbeat.

You get to keep the memories!