1st of all there are too many reasons to list here as to why we would never be married, but I digress.
The disconnect is that your initial response had nothing to do with what Eddie said. In fact in my understanding, you saying that you like to check in on people even if you know they don't care about you is even worse then the “come hear my band request from another stranger”.
For what it's worth I agree with Eddie.
As to why Facebook was setup . . . if you believe that there was never any intention to make money I have some swamp land outside of the levee protection I want to sell you, I promise it will never flood. Joe at least once a week Facebook is trying to sell me ads. Presently I don't buy them because I agree with what Eddie said, but if they show me that it will increase my business I would have to reconsider.
Regarding your wall, 1st of all you don't own any wall or anything on your Facebook page. If you want an uncluttered wall my suggestion would be for you to find a place to socialize where you "PAY" for the service i.e. a website. As then and only then you will have a say as to what can be posted on your wall. Contrary to what some may believe there is no such thing as a free lunch, someone has to pay for it.
Now I am going to work on a play-list for Thursday and Fridays gigs that by the way, I advertised for and will also be happy to accept my performance fees.
Look I am all for whatever you want, that is unless it's for keeping this discussion that seems to be going in a circle alive.

PS: PG Music has a very informative Facebook business page.
I'm done,