@ Texashearts rush, yes that is exactly it, I think the advice I got was meant with good intentions, but was a little "underdone" shall we say smile

You make very good points, as Noel did, and these have helped me conclude Ihave not much to worry about smile

I agree that in some way shape or form, we ALL borrow tags and cliches , not deliberately but it does happen.

Thanks for your post smile
Dennis