The music scene around here is very odd. The guys/gals that play try to be in as many situations as possible to maximise the ability to play out.I've worked my way into this circle.One of the situations is to be part of a Band with this guy. Rehearse once a week, play the occasional gig.For this situation I think it was up to him to come to a solution.And we have. My points:
1. I would tune down or play flat for a one shot gig.
2. I would play flat or tune down for a recording.
3. I would tune down for a permanent gig$$$$$$$$$$ with some one that tuned down.

Thanks for all of the input. It actually really helped.

John
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