For what its worth i felt this way too after three lessons with my guy. Yes he was right about everything, but I could widdle a few tunes, I knew my theory.

It was some uyears ago. I decided to first just count everything until it was internalised, Everything meaning all my car radio, utube, everything until I knew exactly what bar and beat I was on, in my sleep. I then started taking whole notes (semibreves) through tunes, on root, then fifth, then third. I then took two notes from the chord, and so forth.

I resolved never, ever to widdle again.

I need to understand every note I play

I still remember the pain it was like someone stealing your girlfriend frown

Z


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