Hi Caaron, I am (or at least was)a drummer in my days, and most always my biggest sin was that I was a "quiet" player as far as "volume" goes. Having said that, most people didn't have any problem with that. Then again, some tunes almost "scream" for a fill at certain times which almost sound logical. Then again, it all depends on what kind of music one play. But overall I think is a matter of good taste or not.
Later

Mike B.

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