What I would do is use a drum stick count in like a real drummer often does.... tapping the sticks together so everyone in the band can hear..... once the song starts, the click should NOT be needed, so stop the click at the beginning of the song. If you have other instruments playing simple be sure the drummer can hear them cleanly. Even if it's just a piano or strumming acoustic guitar in parts of the song, the live players should be able to easily follow the beat.

The drummer should be able to follow along easily without having to fret over the click and staying with it. Drummers notoriously hate a click. So just give them the starting count in.

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