FWIW I've found that making music is not a solo experience.

For me, being part of an ensemble is a huge encouragement. I play in several groups ranging on size from 6 to in excess of 25. They each have their own appeal but they all contribute to joy in making music.

For me, playing solo is like clapping with one hand: unproductive.

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