George, instead of having a music player on your page why not have the music player on another site and then just link to it? Or maybe that's what you mean.

I use reverbnation to do that, I don't really care for that site much, but I like their music player. Just upload your music there and you can get a player widget, which is basically just a piece of code you copy from their site and embed in your own page, and bingo, you now have a music player on your own site.

Check out my homepage to see it in action: http://blue-attitude.net/