Mine is mild compared to others. my wife sings and a friend plays guitar and sings, I did the sound and on this occasion had to guard the tip jar as the only money was the seed money I put in but several folks were eying those few bucks hungerly . Or invited to play at a festival only to find our spot was facing an empty parking lot closed to the crowd and lastly, our friend ,who plays great,really fine guitarist, tends to go off on improv riffs that were not part of practice without notice. It was fun but doomed from the getgo.
Wyndham