Will,
Not a big fan of Metal myself, but I do understand it. It is done well. Both arrangement and mix is at pro level.
It reminded me of an experimental album of one Russian band that I was a big fan in my youth. What was interesting about the tunes in that album, they would start out similar to your "Bad Busy Days", but then they would go to complete release of tension, about half tempo of the drums and slow bluesy guitar in the same song. It was very interesting and emotional.

I hope problems that are possible to resolve - take turn for the better for your family and friends.

Best regards,
Misha.