Sorry I didn't read through all the posts so you may have something worked out,
but on the drive in the root you will have
Band-in-a-Box.exe
RealBand.exe
datalist.asc (this maybe set to hidden so show hidden files in explorer) this is the text in datalist.asc that tells the shortcuts the targets:
Code:
Band-in-a-Box.exe=\bb\bbw.exe
RealBand.exe=\RealBand\RealBand.exe


This has all 3 files
https://www.dropbox.com/s/6n5ohs9isnwst6m/datalist.zip?dl=1