Of course eveyone learns differently.

But for me, books and videos never cut it.
(And believe me, I've tried a lot.)
Nothing beats one-on-one instruction with a good local teacher.

That being said, as far as videos go, Homespun are (for the most part) very good.
Especially the ones done by Happy Traum himself.

A few of them are available on NetFlix if you want to rent them first, though Homespun has a money-back guarantee policy too.

As far as books go, Acoustic Guitar magazine and the Berkely School of Music have Intro to guitar books.

PS: Though I think the Bass for Dummies book is very good, I wasn't too thrilled with the Guitar Dummies book.

And, as has been mentioned, there are tons of video clips on YouTube.