Why not try RealBand properly? nearly all the problems you've posted in the past few months would be easily solved by RB. The GUI is simple - everything is clearly visible - so it's ideal for what we who use it need to do. you can also choose the GUI appearance with the icon sets available if you don't like grey.

get to like the interface and save yourself the grief you are getting with trying to do things with BIAB that are not immediately obvious the way they are in RB