G'day Keith,
my condolences also. We recently had a similar situation with my wife's mum so I have fresh memories of what you face.

As a result I got to thinking about what I would like to happen at my own funeral - in a coupl'a hundred years or so - and realised that I would prefer people to celebrate my life than be miserable at my death, though I hope nobody actually cheers...

To me, playing his favourite music is part of a celebrating his life - the fact that you prepared it yourself rather than simply grabbing a recording from somewhere gives it greater meaning. Go with it mate.


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