Hi Bob and Joliz!
Joliz’ verse BV have a certain melancholy to it, which suits the theme of this song. Like others, I like the horns as well.

I was thinking about the lyrics and wondering about people that we encounter that are never quite fully centred in the relationship - whether that be a friendship or romantic relationship. Could they be avoiding the memory of a past hurt or avoiding vulnerability? Am I that person (to others)? I guess the bigger question is - what makes us - us? Hmm.

Andrew