Hi raymb1. Like you, with a 13th, I almost never play the 11 (yuk), often omit the 5th, and maybe the ninth. But that is my choice, "with taste" as Mac said. However, in my view, the 13 chord technically includes the 7, 9, and 11.

kelso

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