This has been one of my complaints with various synth manufacturers for years. I do the same as you but as a regular keyboard player. I'm liable to use 3 or 4 different sounds in the same song and that volume problem will drive me nuts sometimes. The only thing you can do is be quick with your volume knob/slider/footpedal. I wouldn't leave it up to a soundman because you're the performer, not him. A patch being too soft is not the problem, it's that screaming lead guitar or layered synth patch that will have everybody looking at you not the soundman. A loud trumpet solo will do it to. If you're playing with the same people all the time, you can create a user bank with the various patches set up the way you want. For me that doesn't work because I play with all kinds of different bands.

Bob

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